(Closed) Thank You Card Ettiquette

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Should I send her a thank you card?
    Yes : (2 votes)
    10 %
    No : (18 votes)
    86 %
    Maybe, explain below please : (1 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 4
    2281 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Thank you cards are for gifts. If you want to thank her for stopping by, send an email or call.  

    The only exception to this is actual weddings, for which some cultures expect a thank you card for attending (I’ve never gotten one, and did not send them for this, but I know some cultures consider it expected). 

    Post # 5
    1318 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    If you send one, it’ll be a kill her with kindness thing, so I think you should… 

    Post # 6
    553 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Maybe send her a card saying something like, “i wanted to thank you for stopping by, it was great seeing you” ??

    Post # 8
    3277 posts
    Sugar bee

    Thank you notes are for gifts. 

    You do not thank someone for their attendance.  The host provided food and refreshment for all the guests to thank guests for coming to the party.  The attendee should be thanking the host for her hospitality.

    Thanking guests for attending can be seen as fishing for gifts.

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