(Closed) Thank You Card for Bridesmaids for hosting the shower?

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
2856 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I would send them each a thank you card. I think that is always the nicest things to do.

Post # 4
484 posts
Helper bee

You should absolutely send a thank you. If they hosted I am presuming they paid for the entire function so that certainly warrants a thank you note. I would also suggest sending a small gift as a thank you. Some nice bath soak or a bottle of wine etc…


Post # 5
647 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

A thank you card is really nice.  If they live in town, you could take them out to lunch, too.

Post # 6
143 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

I definitely agree with the other bees. Thank you cards are simple, but it’s a big gesture. If you’re inspired, you can even make them yourself a la Mrs. Penguin.

Post # 7
19 posts
  • Wedding: December 1969

I agree as well thank you cards are always a nice way to show your appreciation!

Post # 8
165 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

When in doubt I always send a card… who doesn’t love getting an actual physical thank you in the mail?  I also gave my bridesmaids little cutesy jewelry stands from hobby lobby as a gift thanking them for throwing me the shower.  Throwing the shower took a lot more time and effort than buying a gift did, so I was all about writing a personalized note.

Post # 9
60 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

yes yes yes!  

Post # 10
377 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Glad I caught this thread, you don’t think of little thinks like this at the beginning of the planning process! Note to self!!

Post # 11
3332 posts
Sugar bee

I’d still send them a Thank You card.  It’s a sweet gesture to recognize their hard work in planning a great shower.

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