(Closed) thank you card timing

posted 11 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 1
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Blushing bee

hi bees:

two questions regarding thank you cards for wedding gifts:

1. if the person is not attending the wedding but has already sent a gift, i assume i send the thank you card immediately, correct?

 

2. if the person IS attending the wedding but has already sent the gift, when do I send the thank you?  immediately?  if so, do i send a second thank you after the wedding to thank them for attending?  or can i just send one thank-you after the wedding for both the gift and their presence (even though at this point the gift will have been received like 2 months previous)? 

 

 

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Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2021

I think either way- send it asap, don’t worry about a thank you for attending. Better to be prompt on the note!

If you feel you have to you could send a less formal thank you for attending like a postcard thank you thing or even an email.

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