Post # 1
I had my bridal shower last friday and I was wondering if i send out thank you cards to those who came, or do I just wait till my wedding to send out thank you cards?
do the bridal shower guests get 2 thank you cards? one for bridal shower gifts and other one for wedding gifts?—- I am not expecting bridal shower guests to also give me a gift at the wedding but i am just wondering in the case that they do end up giving me 2 gifts.
Post # 3
@pandaboo: I would send out thank you notes for you shower seperately. If you do wait, I don’t think thats bad at all, but I think it’s nice to send shower thank yous out before the wedding.
Post # 4
I would do separate cards for the shower and the wedding.
Post # 5
Yes, I sent out thank you notes for all my bridal shower guests, and I sent out all new thank you notes for the wedding even if those ladies had already gotten one from the shower.
Some of them gave me a gift for the shower and a gift for the wedding, so they would get two anyway, but i still did it even for the ladies who only gave one gift for the shower and not for the wedding.
Post # 6
The shower and wedding are two separate events and require two separate thank you cards. Where I live it is expected that you would receive a shower gift and a wedding gift, so you send a thank you for each. Send out the shower thank you’s now before the wedding, after you’ll be too overwhelmed to do it.
Post # 7
Separate cards sent out as soon as possible. My shower Thank You cards went out the next day but I don’t expect everyone to be as crazy as I am.
Post # 8
okay thank you so much ladies 🙂 i will buy them today and send them out tomorrow! you bees are always so helpful !
Post # 9
another question? do my BM’s get a thank you card for throwing the shower or do i wait until i give them their bm gifts?
Post # 10
@pandaboo: I would say give them a thank you now for hosting….maybe a small gift for serving as hostesses?