(Closed) thank you cards for bridal shower?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
899 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@pandaboo: I would send out thank you notes for you shower seperately. If you do wait, I don’t think thats bad at all, but I think it’s nice to send shower thank yous out before the wedding. 


Post # 4
4371 posts
Honey bee

I would do separate cards for the shower and the wedding.

Post # 5
3624 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Yes, I sent out thank you notes for all my bridal shower guests, and I sent out all new thank you notes for the wedding even if those ladies had already gotten one from the shower.

Some of them gave me a gift for the shower and a gift for the wedding, so they would get two anyway, but i still did it even for the ladies who only gave one gift for the shower and not for the wedding.

Post # 6
679 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

The shower and wedding are two separate events and require two separate thank you cards.  Where I live it is expected that you would receive a shower gift and a wedding gift, so you send a thank you for each.  Send out the shower thank you’s now before the wedding, after you’ll be too overwhelmed to do it.

Post # 7
10287 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Separate cards sent out as soon as possible. My shower Thank You cards went out the next day but I don’t expect everyone to be as crazy as I am.

Post # 10
5295 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

@pandaboo: I would say give them a thank you now for hosting….maybe a small gift for serving as hostesses?

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