(Closed) thank you for uninvited guests?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Do I need to write a thank you note?
    Yes. Suck it up and write them! : (23 votes)
    82 %
    No. : (5 votes)
    18 %
  • Post # 3
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    Busy Beekeeper

    hmm, had you never met these people before?  if not, i am inclined to say that saying you in person was sufficient.  

    Post # 4
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    Bee Keeper

    Ugh…as much as I wouldn’t want to, I would suck it up, track down their addresses and send them a nice thank you note. 

    Post # 5
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    6597 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I voted yes! 

    Mainly because these people may not know the rudeness that occured by the cousin (for inviting them). I think they may have been innocent bystanders.

    Post # 8
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    624 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    If they gave you a gift then yes, you should send them a thank you.

    Post # 9
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    1326 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2011 - Tre Bella, Mesa, AZ

    If you agreed they could come, that was their invite. I’d say yes. Now, if they had crashed the rehearsal dinner after you had said no…I might be more inclined to say don’t send a thank you.

    Post # 10
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    Honey bee

    A thank you note should be given to anyone who gives you a gift, regardless if they were invited or not.

    Post # 11
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    1271 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    if they gave it as a group gift, one thank-you is sufficient for the group…but you really should send a thank-you.

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