Post # 1
i picked out thank you gifts for each of my bridesmaids To be given to them the morning of the wedding. I want to give a little bit more to 4 of my bridesmaids and maid of honor because they spent a lot of time and money for the bachelorette which was destination and the others flaked out. Would that be rude? Should I give it to them a different day?
Post # 2
Just make sure it isn’t obvious. Maybe it would be better to give it to them a different day if you can.
Post # 3
I agree with orange1. You don’t want anyone feeling like they were treated any different the day of your wedding. Keep them all happy and give out the gifts later. If affordable and possible, give them all their gifts the morning of and then the “other” gifts later on.
Post # 4
It’s not rude to give them an extra or larger gift. It would be insensitive to do it in front of the other members of the bridal party.
Post # 6
It’s not rude but like others said don’t let anyone know that she might be getting “less” of a gift. 😉