(Closed) Thank You Note Advice? Couple, only one showed…

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Newbee

I recently had to miss a wedding because I had an awful Migraine but my Fiance went. We did give a gift, but they addressed the card to both of us. I would address both of them exactly how you said it. 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I would address the card to Jon, but add a PS at the end with the part to Becky.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

I would address the card to both and add something about how you missed her and you wish her a happy pregn.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2008 - Winery in the Gold Country

I’d also address the card to both!  I like the example that you gave as well! 

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m not adding anything new, but would address to both and do like your example.  Thanks for that, we actually had a guest like that (except they brought a gift) so I might borrow some of your wording…thanks!

I’ve got a tricky one for you…a cousin and her husband were there at the wedding, but since then have seperated.  So, what would you do for that thank you card?

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper

I would send a separate identical card to each if they are no longer living together.  The good thing is you only have to change the names!  Somthing like:

Jon, Thank you so much for the programmable sock puppets!  We are very excited to put your gift to good use.  Your presence at our wedding made it memorable and special to us, and we look forward to seeing you again soon.  Love, Mr. & Mrs. M.G. Burns

Kate, Thank you so much for the programmable sock puppets!  We are very excited to put your gift to good use.  Your presence at our wedding made it memorable and special to us, and we look forward to seeing you again soon.  Love, Mr. & Mrs. M.G. Burns

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