Post # 1
Okay so this may sound really silly, but I can’t help to ask. If I had some showers and people brought gift, but those same people are talking as though they will also be bringing a gift to the wedding…
write a note now for the shower gift and another later on the same stationary (it came with the invitations) for the wedding gift
or wait and write one note after the wedding?
Post # 3
@KeenanR: Write a note now for the shower gift and another note later for the wedding gift.
Just like you don’t wait until Christmas to thank someone for both the birthday gift & Christmas gift.
Post # 4
Write a thank you for the shower and a separate thank you for the wedding.
Post # 5
The PP’s have given you the correct advice.
You may want to use a separate thank you note for the shower gifts and save the ones that match your invitations for the wedding gifts.
Post # 6
separate notes, and I’d use separate stationary too. I bought two different sets for my Thank You cards for this very reason. 🙂