(Closed) Thank You Note Question

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1078 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

Maybe you can write just a few at a time, or have your husband help you out with writing them? Etiquette for thank you cards says they should always be handwritten…

Post # 4
458 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

They may think it’s tacky, but atleast they can read them!

Or you could use a ruler to keep your lines straight. if it’s really bad, you could use pencil first and trace it.

Just depends on how much time you have. I, too, have terrible handwriting!

Good luck!

Post # 5
1675 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

My Maid/Matron of Honor did this with her thank you cards after her wedding last year – she was also worried about her messy handwriting. She found really lovely gold paper with a scalloped edge and printed her thank you notes on that and then glued that paper into the actual thank you card. It looks really lovely and the messages were very personal.

I know it goes against traditonal etiquette, but I thought they came out beautifully and you could tell she had put a lot of time and thought into them.

Post # 6
3176 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

What about doing a little bit of both, type a really lovely personal message and then when you sign it add a little 1 sentence line like, thanks again for everything or something??

Post # 7
724 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I think typing them is OK, as long as you personalize each one. Make sure it doesn’t sound like a form letter otherwise people will just think you are lazy.

Post # 8
1927 posts
Buzzing bee

I think no matter what a typed thank you is going to look like a form letter.  We received one recently and I was really put off by it.  That person took a lot of time to be at your wedding with you and buy you a gift so I think it’s important that you take the time to write out a heart felt thank you note.  Just do a few at a time and go slow.. and make your husband help! I don’t understand the idea that the bride should write everything thank you note!

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