- 5 years ago
- Wedding: August 2016
I seem to have a lot of questions today.
I think I have almost all of etiquette behind thank you notes figured out (given the fact that they don’t exist in my culture, and I literally heard about them one year ago for the first time). My bridal shower thank you cards were a hit – my future Mother-In-Law told me that several family members really liked them. I guess that writing them was kinda fun since it was a totally new experience. 😉
Right now I have one question. We invited all single friends and family to our wedding with a plus one. A lot of people are coming with a plus one. Assuming that a cousin Kate, let’s say, will bring a boyfriend Tom (not a partner she’s living in, a date), and assuming that if they choose to give a gift, it will be from both of them… How do I send thank you notes?
Do I send it just to Kate’s adress, but start with “Thank you Kate and Tom”? Do I need to send two thank you notes to both Kate and Tom? What is the process of inquiring Tom’s adress? Should I just message Kate after the wedding saying “Hey, I would love to get Tom’s adress to send a thank you note” (No one else knows Tom’s adress). Does the thank you note should say exactly the same for both of them? I really don’t know.