(Closed) Thank you weddingbee…for causing endless worry!

posted 7 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
930 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

@Djacks88:  your hands and nails look beautiful. Not hairy, muffin topped, or strange at all! 😀

Post # 4
152 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Djacks88:  You have NO finger muffin top, your nails are quite pretty, and your hands do not seem to resemble a hobbit’s 😉

As for the black diamond, if they cannot appreciate that exquisite stone, it is only because they have no imagination or appreciation for unique beauty!

Your wedding pics are gonna be awesome! You have lovely hands and bitches will be bitches. That girl probably started that thread because she has her own insecurities. It’s stupid but do not let it get you down!

Post # 5
3668 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Djacks88:  I genetically have hairy knuckles and therefore I wax. I don’t really care if someone finds it unattractive because I don’t really like it eaither. If someone hates that their fingers button over their ring then, whatever, that is their insecurity. I never do my nails and actually bit them all off the night before my wedding. Only you can let these things bother you. 

I wanted a heart shaped ring and the ring we picked was chosen because it WAS cheaper! I think it is a fair assumption to think that someone who chose a stone other than a white diamond had the price tag in mind. If it was chosen for the style then that is all you need to say, “nah, price wasn’t an issue. I just really like the way they look on me!” 

Everybody has opinions but only you can let those opinions ruin your own view. 


Post # 6
544 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Djacks88:  I think you have pretty fingers! And dont worry about other people’s mean opinions. Your ring is beautiful and all that matters is that you are happy with it!

Post # 7
510 posts
Busy bee

You went against your own point at the end of the post by defending your ring by saying it was expensive. Why should it matter at all? Isn’t that what you’re trying to say?

Other than that, don’t let people on a website, or in person, or in public, ever make you feel insecure about yourself because they’re insecure about themselves. And if you wind up insecure….don’t blame them. You are only as insecure as you allow yourself to be! Be happy knowing that petty things like finger hair, that EVERYONE HAS, don’t bug you, whereas other people apparently spend hours worrying about it. 

Post # 9
8434 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@Djacks88:  people say mean things on the internet, it isn’t the first time and it definitely won’t be the last.  However, if you want to post/participate on a forum, you have to realize that these things will happen.  This is one of the tamest forums I’ve ever seen, so if the posts here are too mean forums just might not be your thing.

Post # 10
3229 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@Djacks88:  People in general are rude.  But they get an added boast of confidence when they are speaking to people online without a “face”.  Do not let anything that happens on this forum or ANYWHERE on the internet bother you to the point where you are worrying for hours.  Seriously, life is too short and the only person you can please in life is yourself.  

That PM to you was extremely rude but that thread about fingers was not directly directed at you so really just move on.  As far as the PM, I would report it to the mods and move on.  

Edit to add:  Your ring is beautiful!  I begged for a black diamond too but DH instead I could have one has a RHR but not an engagement ring.  You are one lucky lady!


Post # 11
148 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

You let those comments bother you so much that it caused you hours of worry? I think you might be taking this forum a little too seriously.

Post # 13
8036 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

You have a lovely ring and a lovely hand but I do see your point.

The hairy knuckle threads always amuse me because I have always been a bit self conscious of body hair… including knuckles. I’m no hairy beast or anything, and my hair isn’t even all that dark, but I still periodically bleach my knuckle hair lol.

Post # 14
4474 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

It would be great if everyone was nice on the internet…but this is the internet.  I think people on Weddingbee are pretty good about calling people out when they’re being mean.  As a general rule, I don’t think worrying about how your hands look is worth losing sleep over.  We can’t all be hand models.

Post # 15
7643 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

I don’t let the opinions of internet strangers dictate my daily activities or how I feel about my appearance. If someone really has a problem with my muffin top fingers and unpainted nails that are chipped, then that says more about them than it does about me.

Post # 16
1784 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

If it makes you feel any better, I tried to grow my nails out so I can paint them for the ceremony and I took a chunk out of my pinky with them. Pretty hands just ain’t worth it. If I make another Bee faint from horror because I dare to leave the house without perfectly manicured nails, oh well. 

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