(Closed) That B$%!H!!!!!!

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Wow, not cool.  I hate making guests choose like that.

Post # 4
333 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Unfortunetly we don’t own our wedding days.  There could be some type of financial reason or anything really making her choose that day.  Since you say she’s a college friend it doesn’t seem as if you two are super close and at this point if she does go through with it on the same day and you happen to invite a few of the same people you’ll have to expect people won’t came, as will she.

Post # 5
1046 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I would hate to be the guests that got two invites….awkward starfish… =( sucks that this happened to you!

Post # 6
764 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Tell her you’re so disappointed that she will miss your wedding and you will miss hers. If you’re just now hearing about it, maybe it’s not set in stone.

Post # 8
273 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Yeah, that’s awkward and, I admit, annoying.  At least you’ve already sent out your save the dates.  I would take the high road at this point when it comes to her and your in common friends.  No sense in making it even more awkward for the friends choosing between the two.  

lol  So do you think you’re going to send her an invitation to your wedding anyways?  That makes for an interesting situation…

Post # 10
2161 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Strange.  You would think that she would want to attend each other’s weddings and to have all of her guest/friends be able to attend.  Since you sent out your Save-The-Date Cards first, you’re ahead of the game.   lol

Post # 11
3126 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

Be sure to send out your invites first 🙂

Kidding aside, it sucks that she chose the same date as you but I can promise you you will have so much fun at your wedding that you wont even notice if a few friends are missing.

Post # 12
233 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

It happens. Each of us chooses our wedding day for our own reasons. Be happy that you are both getting married, and perhaps be a little sad that you can’t share your days with each other present. Then move on, you can’t really change it.

FWIW, I had three roommates in college. 3 of the 4 of us ended up getting married on the exact same time. It happens, we all had lovely days, and we all got over it.

Post # 13
6824 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

It happens, I have two friends from high school. (Which was almost 20 years ago now.) They dated in high school and broke up. They both got married on the same say to different people and quite a few people were invited to both weddings.

I would be annoyed but be happy for her, as PP said we don’t own wedding days.

Post # 14
851 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

What a strange girl!

Post # 15
1577 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

That’s very odd!  She moved her date from next month to your EXACT date?  Wow.. that just seems really crazy.  I’m sorry this is happening to you!

Post # 16
235 posts
Helper bee

Yeah, it happens but I would be pissed too! WTF She couldnt have asked or given you a reason why?

I agree with the previous posters that it would be super awkward to get an invite to both and have to choose.

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