(Closed) That old chestnut –Bridesmaid woes ~

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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Blushing bee

Ahh weddings… they seem to bring out the worst in some people! Lol.

For starters,  I wouldn’t take to heart what your bm said about the make up.  She probably meant well – it sounds like something I would say when I forget to filter from my brain to my mouth. 

Her sister though, that’s a little weird. From her point of view,  she is probably thinking how wonderful it would be to be a bridesmaid with her sister,  to support her best friend!  

Take what she said with a grain of salt, give her a little grace but stick to your guns with your vision (bridal party,  hair and m/u, etc).

If this is the worst of it you’ll be ok!

Post # 3
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217 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

My guess is that she’s worried about her sister having to be alone all day and sit by herself at the ceremony. Easy solution! Make her a bridesmaid. Haha I can see her “logic” but that is a little insane!

Post # 4
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553 posts
Busy bee

Let her go to the makeup counter on your wedding day.  Do not spend your hard-earned money on her makeup artist because it sounds like she wouldn’t appreciate it.  I have no idea why people have to give their ignorant opinions but apparently they do.  Oh and her sister as a bridesmaid, wtf??

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