(Closed) That REALLY just happened?!? (nwr vent!! kind of long)

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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10851 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Oh my gosh that is awful! ((Hugs!!!)) You did the right thing getting out of the house. I’ve had people stay at our place before who essentially did the same thing and it really pissed me off, so I feel your pain. I would feel so uncomfortable with people I don’t really know staying in the house if my Fiance weren’t here. J’s BIL sounds like a class one a$$hole, pardon my language. Cross your fingers it was just the alcohol talking, but sometimes the way people feel under it all comes out after a few too many. What a jerk. He sounds like someone who likes to feel important and like a big man and he does that by putting other people down. Your boyfriend should talk to him about all this, but it sounds like a situation that will always be an undertone. You guys are going to need to take some distance from it all, which will be hard to do considering it’s a family business. Personally I would write him off as a huge drunken jerk and just keep my distance for a while. Let your boyfriend handle the fall out, he’ll know how to handle his family best.

Post # 4
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3539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

aww not a good situation, can you go back to the place were your paying rent on?? and stay there and Jason comes visits you? would that make it more comfortable

Alcohol can do some stupid things, but I think it was so wrong to talk to you like that with alchohol or no alchohol.

 

Post # 6
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3539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I think stay on the couch for the next few days till it blows over, at least you have some where to stay.

The jerk owes you an apology.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2008

Wow. THis sucks! 

If I were you, I would take that couch at your old place for at least a little while.  It’s not worth the lack of sleep, rudeness and uncomfortability.

Atleast your Boyfriend or Best Friend stood up for you though!

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