(Closed) THATS IT!

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m assuming you mean by people IRL? What happened? Sorry you’re upset. πŸ™

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I don’t know you and have never seen you on the boards here before (i’m more of a reader, less involved in conversation though, lol) but what happened? =( I think the women here should be happy for other brides whether their ring is this or that… I have noticed a LOT of cattiness, rude comments and straight up bitchiness on here lately, like i asked for advice (sorta) and posted about my feelings about something going on in my family and i understand honest advice but some people were just making comments that were borderline insulting.. i was more looking for support, and i was just like wow, ok..  what does your ring look like if you dont mind me asking? 

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

i should have paid more attention. this wasn’t on the boards.. was it? lol

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

On behalf of the hive, I would like to extend a hearty SCREW YOU to the lady in question.

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@His Lil SantosGirl: I am sorry =( why is it people don’t like your ring so much?

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@helenberrycrunch: AMEN! And, seriously, that made my night.

For the record OP, I’ve seen your ring and it is GORGEOUS! It’s such a beautiful setting with beautiful stones- and it was picked for you with love!

Post # 12
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Helper bee

Oh, sweetie. I’m sorry people are such complete morons. I can totally see why you’re feeling hurt and angry about their reactions. I’m upset for you.

It’s sad that, as a society, we’ve grown so monstrous and materialistic. It’s actually quite pathetic that one would take something as beautiful as a marriage proposal and lifetime promise, and turn it into a sort of competition or means to judge another human being and relationship.

I’ve seen pictures of your ring on here and I’m being honest when I say that it’s absolutely stunning. The kind of people who truly, honestly, genuinely measure love, committment and personal worth by the size of one’s ring aren’t the kind of people that deserve to have a valued opinion; it’s as simple as that.

The next time someone has the audacity to criticize your engagement ring, take a deep breath and feel free to let them have it.

 

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

@His Lil SantosGirl:  screw them!  let me repeat, screw them! 

i dont know what ring you have but do. not. forget! that its not about anyone else, its about how you feel and your Fiance, it was his gift to you, to the both of you as a couple so dont let anyone diminish your feelings about it – you are better than that *hugs*

 

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

@His Lil SantosGirl: If it makes you feel better, a patient’s wife informed me that my ring was tacky, morbid, and that my fiance was stupid for giving it to me and I was stupid for taking it.

Actually, now that I’m thinking about it again, she wasn’t even his wife. She was his caretaker and she claimed they were boyfriend/girlfriend. He was unable to answer since I had him so sedated.

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@helenberrycrunch: Here, Here! (on the SCREW YOU, not what you just posted…obviously)

 @His Lil SantosGirl: I am SO sorry you’ve had to deal with shitheads like that. There is never a need or reason to act the way some folks do these days. I haven’t seen your ring, but your love gave it to you and that is beautiful in itself. I’m sure it’s gorgeous, and I hope that you love it as much as he did when he picked it out for you.

 

Post # 16
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5118 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@His Lil SantosGirl: That lady sucks. You’re much nicer than I am, I’d have responded with a ‘well I thought you had more of a brain than that, shut ya damn mouth!’ You love your ring, your Fiance gave it to you with the most special meaning and promise, and that lady can go kick rocks. I hope you feel better, don’t let one bitty get you down. 

ETA: This song always makes me laugh when someone’s being a B, gooooood morning. πŸ™‚

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