Post # 1
I’ve had enough of the rude, heartless comments about my ring. 🙁
I thought it was just me being sensitive but now I know.. people just are mean. period.
I’m going to go design now 🙁 I’m so upset.
Post # 3
I’m assuming you mean by people IRL? What happened? Sorry you’re upset. 🙁
Post # 4
I feel like of all the brides in the world I get to meanest ring comments. The truth is I don’t even ASK for it, people just share it openly cause they think they know whats best.
Today I had an accointance of a friend actually say, “I know AJ has more money than that. I don’t get it.”
what happened to being polite and saying, “it’s lovely”.. I’m really hurt now and I’ve been strong and told other girls on the bee to be strong but.. it’s just mean.
and I desperately love my ring. I hate that woman feel they need to share their mind when they think it’s best. =(
Post # 5
I don’t know you and have never seen you on the boards here before (i’m more of a reader, less involved in conversation though, lol) but what happened? =( I think the women here should be happy for other brides whether their ring is this or that… I have noticed a LOT of cattiness, rude comments and straight up bitchiness on here lately, like i asked for advice (sorta) and posted about my feelings about something going on in my family and i understand honest advice but some people were just making comments that were borderline insulting.. i was more looking for support, and i was just like wow, ok.. what does your ring look like if you dont mind me asking?
Post # 6
i should have paid more attention. this wasn’t on the boards.. was it? lol
Post # 7
No. I’ve been on the boards for awhile, but i hardly ever complain or whine.
Drama isn’t really my forte.
I’m just so damn hurt and i hate it. I hate that it’s gotten to me. I’m sitting at my desk staring at my ring and thinking about how much hate i have for rude curtful woman.
Post # 8
On behalf of the hive, I would like to extend a hearty SCREW YOU to the lady in question.
Post # 9
@His Lil SantosGirl: I am sorry =( why is it people don’t like your ring so much?
Post # 10
@helenberrycrunch: AMEN! And, seriously, that made my night.
For the record OP, I’ve seen your ring and it is GORGEOUS! It’s such a beautiful setting with beautiful stones- and it was picked for you with love!
Post # 11
@cyndistar3: *shrugs* I don’t know. 🙁 I really don’t. I never read stories on here of other woman being so rude to other brides rings.
Post # 12
Oh, sweetie. I’m sorry people are such complete morons. I can totally see why you’re feeling hurt and angry about their reactions. I’m upset for you.
It’s sad that, as a society, we’ve grown so monstrous and materialistic. It’s actually quite pathetic that one would take something as beautiful as a marriage proposal and lifetime promise, and turn it into a sort of competition or means to judge another human being and relationship.
I’ve seen pictures of your ring on here and I’m being honest when I say that it’s absolutely stunning. The kind of people who truly, honestly, genuinely measure love, committment and personal worth by the size of one’s ring aren’t the kind of people that deserve to have a valued opinion; it’s as simple as that.
The next time someone has the audacity to criticize your engagement ring, take a deep breath and feel free to let them have it.
Post # 13
@His Lil SantosGirl: screw them! let me repeat, screw them!
i dont know what ring you have but do. not. forget! that its not about anyone else, its about how you feel and your Fiance, it was his gift to you, to the both of you as a couple so dont let anyone diminish your feelings about it – you are better than that *hugs*
Post # 14
@His Lil SantosGirl: If it makes you feel better, a patient’s wife informed me that my ring was tacky, morbid, and that my fiance was stupid for giving it to me and I was stupid for taking it.
Actually, now that I’m thinking about it again, she wasn’t even his wife. She was his caretaker and she claimed they were boyfriend/girlfriend. He was unable to answer since I had him so sedated.
Post # 15
@helenberrycrunch: Here, Here! (on the SCREW YOU, not what you just posted…obviously)
@His Lil SantosGirl: I am SO sorry you’ve had to deal with shitheads like that. There is never a need or reason to act the way some folks do these days. I haven’t seen your ring, but your love gave it to you and that is beautiful in itself. I’m sure it’s gorgeous, and I hope that you love it as much as he did when he picked it out for you.
Post # 16
@His Lil SantosGirl: That lady sucks. You’re much nicer than I am, I’d have responded with a ‘well I thought you had more of a brain than that, shut ya damn mouth!’ You love your ring, your Fiance gave it to you with the most special meaning and promise, and that lady can go kick rocks. I hope you feel better, don’t let one bitty get you down.
ETA: This song always makes me laugh when someone’s being a B, gooooood morning. 🙂