(Closed) That's my date! Not yours!!!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
5096 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

You can’t control what date they pick. All you can do is make clear that you aren’t changing your own date, that you have put money down, and that you hope it works out for everyone.

Post # 5
2781 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@mightywombat:  I agree.

You already put a deposit down, and these people keep changing their minds on their date, while you can’t control what date they eventually choose. Just accept it if it is the same, and be understanding if people choose to attend that one instead.

Post # 6
1748 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I agree that you can’t really do anything about it except if you’re asked just kind of shrug your shoulders and say, “Well, the money’s been deposited on the venue so that’s the day we’re having our wedding! We can’t just change it…”


Post # 7
4653 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I think they need to change the date if anything. You have deposits put down so you should not have to change the date!

Post # 8
2554 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I would keep your date. You can’t control which date thet pick and like you said, if his cousin uis a bit wishy washy, I wouldn’t worry about it until they’ve actually set a date.

Post # 9
250 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I wouldn’t worry about it, since it is family from overseas.  If they really are that wishy-washy, they may change their minds again before the end of the week.

Post # 10
3303 posts
Sugar bee

Send out Save-The-Date Cards so the family is fully aware that your wedding is happening on said date.

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