(Closed) The 6 month+TTC gets their BFPs (aka Part 10)

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Post # 362
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

@Wispy:  I’m so, so sorry. ๐Ÿ™ I know a couple people who have had to take the methotrexate and they are fine and are now pregnant or have babies. I hope everyhthing goes smoothly from here on out!

Post # 363
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@bunny:  Oh, Bunny, I am so sorry.  I just want to strangle your doctor…this process is trying enough without having to deal with unresponsive doctors.  I hope your time away brings you peace and I love that you have a plan in place for your next move!  Good luck and please check in… {{{HUGS}}}

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@elchalten:  Sorry about almost spilling your tea, but I am thrilled I made you laugh!  Sometimes you just have to …

As I suspected AF arrived on Tuesday, not too shocked but there is always that hope of maybe this finally being the time she decides to take a 9 month hiatus…so not the case for me.  On to our month of just chilling before IUI w/injectables – think I will partake in some adult beverages this fine weekend ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Post # 364
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

@bunny:  Why is your re so annoying. I’m so angry for you. Good luck with the weight loss!

Post # 365
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@Wispy:  Thinking about you right now. Sending hugs!

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@elchalten:  Good for you taking a break. I think in this whole TTC world- its the mind that needs the break to try and get into a better place! Good Luck!

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@jaguar:  Always thinking about you! Can’t believe the level of positivity you have about it all- you are really a person to look up to!

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@bunny:  Awww… your doctor makes me mad! I dont understand how medical professionals dont understand all the waiting around is worse for us! Ill thinking of you! And- I am still on the weight loss journey with you!!

So I have been feeling great for the last few weeks- lost 30 lbs. and am ready for the Clomid to work, and get us KU. Then my husband calls me at work yesterday- a member of our immediate family is preggers. DH called me to tell me before anyone else could. Ladies- I was a friggin mess. I cried at work, I cried all the way home, I cried when DH got home from work. I honestly felt like I was finally able to breathe again after losing weight and getting my body in better place for TTC and then I find out someone else (who we are very close with and I SHOULD be happy for) is KU. I know that sounds so selfish- like I cant be happy for them- and I am happy for them- i dont know how to explain it. I seriously felt like I was so alone yesterday- I mean DH gets it to a point, but I had no one to talk to about it…. I guess I never thought this TTC journey would be so hard, and such a lonely process…..

Anyways I am feeling alot better today- woke up with a better attitude towards us getting KU and hoping that our turn will come soon.

Post # 366
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@cheert16:  I totally agree with “its the mind that needs the break to try and get into a better place”. I’m trying to follow this mantra and not drive myself crazy. And congrats on losing 30lbs!!! that’s such a great accomplishment!

Post # 367
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@cheert16:  First, congratulations on the weight loss…that is awesome!!!  Good for you.  Second, {{{HUGS}}} I hear everything you are saying about the PG announcement…especially the part of not being able to be happy for them and also being happy for them.  It is awful and may be lmy least favorite thing about this process.  I also completely understand you on feeling alone…just know that you aren’t we are all here for you.  Does anyone IRL know you are trying that you may be able to talk to?  I ask because we haven’t told anyone but my best friend, and even though she does have kids of her own, she lets me vent about my frustrations and it does help because the guys just don’t get it completely sometimes.  Glad ot hear you are feeling better today…your turn is right around the corner ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 368
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@MrsLantern:  Wish there was a like button for your mantra:)

Post # 369
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@bunny:  Damn your OB.  Enjoy your the next 10wks off.  I know its not what you wanted nor expected but the time maybe the breathing room needed after dealing w/ IF and Dr. Jerk.  If this month’s IUI doesn’t work, we’ll be cycling again the same time:)

Post # 370
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

@gingersnap25:  Definitelydeserving a few drinkies!  

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@cheert16:  Happy for them, sad for yourself. TOTALLY get it.  30 lbs is awesome though, you must feel amazing ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 371
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@cheert16:  Congrats on your 30lb Weight Loss!!!!  I’m glad your feeling much better.  As frustrating as it is, know that it will be your turn soon.  I’m 42 and just beginning the journey after years of being the “Old Maid”.  Well, my turn finally came.  We’re hitting our One yr Anniversary and finally have gotten the greenlight to do our first IUI.  I had finally gotten use to the idea of being a jetsetting Auntie and now I will have the opportunity to become a mother.  Just the opportunity gives me the drive to continue when Life is being such a BEAR!!!!  So, have a good cry but don’t give up.  Your turn will come:)

Post # 372
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I just wanted to put this out there:  holy moly creamy CM!  I’m about 5dpo (based on my historical clockwork cycle) and it’s insane!  Like (TMI) drippy! Eww!  Not reading anything into it though, because I’ve had every pg symptom in the book before.

I’m hoping to catch up with you guys later! 

Post # 374
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@septcabride:  [Waving like Forrest Gump when he sees Lt. Dan] Hi!!!  I just asked elchalten earlier if she had heard from you since I hadn’t “seen” you around lately!  How are things??? 

Post # 375
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@gingersnap25:  that mantra was from 

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@cheert16 and I agree it’s great!

 

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@MrsFarmer:  yay to creamy CM!! I’m having intense tender breasts since 2DPO and I hope these signs mean good things for us!

 

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@septcabride:  how are you? hope you’re doing well!

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