(Closed) The 6 month+TTC gets their BFPs (aka Part 10)

posted 9 years ago in TTC
Post # 437
Bee
5496 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011 - Sydney, Australia

@BrianneG:  Happy anniversary! WHEN you get KU, I will totally take you up on the offer. I always have to spend a fortune getting them shipped from the UK/US because they don’t sell the CB monitors or sticks here. πŸ™

You’ve waited 12 months. That’s a heck of a long time to wait & you deserve to be treated seriously. I hope they can be more aggressive with your treatment. x

Post # 438
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1778 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@Mrs. Farmer I’m so sorry, some people are so inconsiderate. My latest response to the “when are you going to have a baby” question is “I’ll have one when you do” (particularly when the person asking is definately done having children) I’ve been pretty quiet about our TTC but sometimes DH can’t contain himself and proudly answers “we’re practicing” which I HATE – we know how to do it, we don’t need practice- what an irritating phrase, UGH!

Hold your head high when you see those gossipy women, what they should be talking about is your incredible strength.

@Lantern Congratulations! Exciting to see another graduate. Thank you for providing a breakdown of what you did this month, always appreciate knowing others tactics

Post # 439
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375 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@elchalten:  I feel so dumb forgot to mention about RJ at my last AP appt. duh. I was not taking chinese herbs yet (was waiting for them to be shipped). But now that I am taking the herbs, I have not taken RJ the past few days it did cross my mind. Anyway I have msged my AP and will let you know what she thinks.

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@Mrs. Jaguar:  you are in my thoughts fingers crossed that you are going to O soon! Do they monitor cycle & give hcg shot? That is standard practice at my RE clinic when taking clomid.

@Wispy: so sorry this is dragging on (hugs) hope you can put this behind soon!

Post # 440
Bee
5496 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011 - Sydney, Australia

@silver1:  Nope – I’m doing this on my own while I wait for my next IVF cycle. πŸ˜‰ No triggering for me. Just waiting around to see if it happens.. as much on its own as it can. (So far it’s looking grim!)

Post # 441
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375 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@Mrs. Jaguar:  Oh that made me sad what you are going thru and all that you (and folks here) would do to get pg. Hang in there and keep on the positive spirit that you have. You so deserve to O and get bfp before ivf!

Post # 442
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932 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

Got punched in the gut with a pregnancy announcement today. The girl in question is a close friend, we worked together for years, and she has now gotten pregnant THREE times since we’ve been TTC. Sadly, she had one miscarriage, so I feel bad for being upset, but she’s now 14 weeks and announced via Facebook.

I’m sad for a few reasons, because she will have 2 babies before I’ve even gotten the chance to have one (we’re exactly the same age), and also that she didn’t tell me before posting. She told me with her first because she knew we’d been trying, and didn’t want to upset me with the announcement.

I feel like a terrible person for being sad/upset about this. I really am trying to be happy for her. Its just extremely difficult.

Post # 443
Bee
5496 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011 - Sydney, Australia

@redsmarties:  I’m so sorry, love. Happy/sad is so hard. People who’ve already had their babies & are pregnant with #2 – it’s happening quite a bit with us too. It gets the harder the longer you’re left TTC, I think. It certainly doesn’t get any easier, that’s for sure. Sending you lots of hugs today.

@silver1:  Thanks hon. I don’t even mind doing the IVF again … I just hate this useless time waiting around for it, you know?

Post # 444
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1092 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@BrianneG: Happy anniversary!  I hope you had a great evening together. πŸ™‚

@lonsk:  Thanks lady.  I’m feeling so much better to have that experience a few days behind me.  All of you guys here know exactly how I’m feeling and why.  It’s been so helpful to have your support.  (Ugh, I don’t like the “we’re practicing” phrase either–I prefer not to discuss our marital relations or fertility with anyone unless I’m the one offering!)

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@Mrs. Jaguar:  You’re Mrs. Jaguar on the boards now!  That must be a recent change. πŸ™‚  I’m so sorry about your frustrations with all those highs and no O in sight.  I can’t even imagine…girl, you are SO strong and such an inspiration to everyone.  (((Hugs)))

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@redsmarties:  I’m sorry. πŸ™  I do the happy/sad thing too.  Happy for them, sad for us. You’re not a terrible person for feeling that way…Honestly, what you’re experiencing are normal human emotions.  I find that I can’t help some of those feelings even if I had a suspicion that there was an announcement coming (and as much as I hate feeling that way, sometimes it’s pretty much impossible to shake).  A few more months and people will be starting to lap us too.  *sigh*  I’m sorry, hon.  It sucks any way you look at.  Just know that we’re here for you and that we love and support you.  (((Hugs))) 

I keep looking at one of the TTC inspiration graphics posted by Elley (I have it hung up at my desk at work so I read it often):  “Only God knows how it all turn out, and for those who belong to Him, it turns out well.”  Keep trusting! ♥

 

Post # 445
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1092 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I have this weird feeling that I might be KU.  I don’t know.  I don’t feel any differently than any other cycle besides some mild crampiness on and off which usually precedes AF and that mega creamy CM that I mentioned at 5dpo.  I’m 11 dpo today and got a stark white BFN when I tested yesterday.  I definitely won’t be testing again until at least Saturday, when I would be one day late.  Wait and see….

Post # 446
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280 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@MrsFarmer:  Ohhhh, how exciting!  I will be keeping everything crossed for you πŸ™‚  There may be no rhyme or reason…sometimes you just know!

Post # 447
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680 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@silver1: Anxiously waiting for your RJ feedback πŸ˜‰ Thanks for getting in touch with your AP. I’ll do the same later today and hope I hear back from my AP soon. See what they both have to say.

@redsmarties:  I’m sorry you got another pregnany announcement. I don’t even get why people would post that kind of stuff on their facebook page. Not everyone wants to read it. There should be a pregnany alert before you log in. Don’t feel bad about the happy/sad feeling. We all have been there. I would say – put on your running shoes. Maybe after a short run you’ll feel better. ((hugs))

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@MrsFarmer:  That would be fabulous!!!! I’m so keeping my fingers, toes and everything else I got crossed for you. Good luck, my friend!

Post # 448
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1092 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@gingersnap25:  

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@elchalten:  I was probably going out on a limb to say that I’m might be KU…I’m wishy washy about the whole thing because I’m just basing it on a feeling (and I could me trying to convince myself at the same time!)  I don’t want  to get anyone’s hopes up!  Gah, I probably shouldn’t have said anything!!! Surprised 

For the record, I won’t be as devastated if it doesn’t happen this time around, because it would mean we could still go to Switzerland in December…Of course if it happens, I will be ecstatic though!!

Post # 449
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68 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@MrsFarmer:  sending heaps and heaps of positive thoughts your way! creamy CM is a very good sign πŸ™‚

Post # 450
Bee
5496 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011 - Sydney, Australia

@MrsFarmer:  I so hope your feeling is right! (Squee!) I didn’t request the change, but it happened after the site outages – all the bees have Miss/Mrs. now. Very cool! I feel all grown up.

Unfortunately, I have bad news. After 19 days of Highs on the CBFM, I got a Low today. My OPKs are white. I’m done. Another anovulatory cycle. So much for being more fertile after IVF? I like to be the exception to the rule. πŸ™

10 days of Provera starting now.

Post # 451
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680 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@MrsFarmer:  You are not getting our hopes up – we are “just” rooting for you and would be thrilled if you’re feeling is right! We will be here for you to celebrate either your BFP or your trip to Switzerland. FX, girl!

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@Mrs. Jaguar:  Argh. How frustrating! I’m so sorry your body is doing his own thing. ((hugs)).

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