The baby fever is REAL.

posted 3 weeks ago in TTC
Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

I would wait, you still have plenty of fertile years ahead. When I was in my mid 20’s and got baby fever I got a kitten so I recommend that lol.

Post # 18
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

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@mrsdogmama0618:  Fellow dog mom!

I had a dog at the time too. I just wanted a little baby to love lol And a kitten seemed easier than a puppy at the time so kitten it was.

 

Post # 19
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Worker bee

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@mrsdogmama0618:  i don’t mean this to be snarky at all, but from one professional musician to another, this is a pretty terrible time for our industry job-wise, stability-wise, and pretty much any other way you can think of it. I’m not sure specifically what your DMA is in, but if it’s performance and you aren’t 100% sure of a reliable source of income post graduation (for instance, a robust private teaching studio of 25-30 steady and long term students so your income isn’t concentrated from 1 unreliable source) i would definitely wait. Also everyone i know who did a DMA said it took at least 3 years, often 4-5 depending on their concert requirements. I would probably wait until you are nearing the end and try then. Having kids is tough, you’d need to have them in full time care I’m guessing to be able to complete your requirements. From one exhausted musician-mama – wait until you are in your last year (unless you have fertility concerns, i suppose)

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