(Closed) 'The Bachelor' – who's watching Mr. Juan Pablo?

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Post # 152
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

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@beemyname:  That’s what I was thinking too! They didn’t get into it but she said “Why would you talk about your overnight with Claire?”

Post # 153
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

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@beemyname:  

I don’t disagree. I just don’t she really thought through what she was going to say before she said it, or something.

She spent most of the time bashing him for his habit of saying “ok.” And it came across as unnecessarily confrontational to me.

Juan didn’t actually “do” anything to her, based on what was aired at least, beyond be a person that Andi finds annoying.

 

 

Post # 154
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

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@Cory_loves_this_girl:  I am sure he wishes he had kept Rene and not Andi

Post # 155
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

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@Carolsays:  I’m sure he is, but Renee was too good for him.

Post # 156
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@freshflowers:  I believe he did “do” something to her even if it was as simple as trying to take “advantage” of their privacy, especially since it was clear to us that he was not interested in her. He was more than just annoying,  he was unconcerned about his future with any of the girls or their feelings about the future. But instead of saying he’s not interested, he would simply try to get physical.(I think it took her a while to accept that she wasn’t misunderstanding his actions-throughout the show). At first I thought it was editing,  but other girls have confirmed it including Andi. Okay was not the problem,  it was the way it was said/perceived. 

In the moment,  it is hard to know how to react if you are taken by suprise or too angry to say something. I think that is why she did not talk to him about it the night before. Also, he is good at shutting the women down, when they try to talk especially about anything serious. He may not have let her talk, instead, kissing her!

Post # 157
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Dallas, TX

Juan Pablo sucks. I would have been upset if I were Andi too about his reaction to her saying she was leaving, but she definitely pushed it too far and came across petty. I really wish she had just left and vented in the limo or something. I think she is the best bachelorette candidate, but they would be better off just starting fresh.

Post # 158
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013 - Dalhousie Castle

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@beemyname:  This is exactly what I thought probably happened. It kind of seemed like they were talking around it, without actually wanting to say that. 

Post # 159
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Just found this post. I think he’s totally sleazy and a player. I LOVE Renee but I was happy when he sent her home because she can do WAY better. I actually wish she was the next Bachelorette.

 

At this point, I dont care who he picks. I’m kind of over the show but definitely want to see the finale 🙂

 

Post # 160
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013 - Dalhousie Castle

Well I think this has been a strange season, normally it’s pretty clear who the star is really into quite early on, not this season though, with maybe a slight exception for Claire.

To be real,  I think a lot of the bachelor is BS because realistically how deeply in love can you be with someone that you haven’t spent a lot of time with? Especially, no “real world” time going to the supermarket etc. That’s not saying I don’t like watching the show! It’s just as fun as the rest of reality tv. I do think that people meet that like each other and have the potential for a future relationship. Ashley and Justice of the Peace seemed to be a great match. Anyway.

This season though, it really seems like he’s just not that into any of the women. I’m not 100% sure this is not due to the language barrier or what. I thought Andi had a great point when she said he didn’t know any of those important things about her. Assuming that the proposal is at least an indication of a willingness to continue the relationship, two weeks away from that and you think he would know a few things about her. He kept saying all the time that he wants to fine a good mother for his kid. How can he do that if he doesn’t find out anything about their views on life?

Also, she did make the point that she gave up a lot of her time to come on the show. I don’t think it’s unreasonable to expect someone to show a little emotion on your departure if they are supposed to be close to picking you as a potential wife. The lack of emotion didn’t jive with what he was saying about Andi maybe being the one. I think they are just having him spout the “bachelor” rhetoric and go through the motions until the end of the show. I think he’s going the way of Ben, his season was a train wreck. 

I do think Andi will make a good bachelorette. She came off as intelligent, funny and honest. I think that would lead to a good season next time. 

 

Post # 161
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Just found this thread 🙂 Huge fan of the Bachelor/Bachelorette. Whenever they announced Juan Pablo as the Bachelor last year I was immediately disappointed. I never understood why all the girls went crazy over Justice of the Peace. I don’t find him attractive and he is so incredibly boring to watch. My favorite from Desiree’s season was Drew… he would’ve made such a great Bachelor!!! 🙁 I think they made a mistake by choosing Juan Pablo as the Bachelor.

I am in the small minority of people who like Clare. I liked Clare from day 1 and still do. I don’t understand why people dislike her so much. I think Clare is very sweet and attractive. I really dislike Nikki and always have. I don’t think she is pretty and she could not get along with any of the girls. Even though I don’t really care for Justice of the Peace, I think Clare and Justice of the Peace are the best match. And even though I don’t care for Nikki, I think she is much more intelligent than Justice of the Peace is, and I think that will make them incompatible.

I think Andi will make a good Bachelorette. I like that she is intelligent and educated. It will make for a much more interesting season than this one.

Post # 162
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Well… Women tell all was pretty much unwatchable.

After hearing all of the ladies rant about Juan Pablo I left thinking that he was not so bad in comparison!!

Sharleen and Renee were the only two (at least who spoke a number of times) that acted like women. Oh, and Cassandra. I just really like Cassandra. I don’t know why. She had negative things to say about JP but articulated them in a way that was appropriate and not bashing the man.

Juan Pablo is who he is. He is not going to change who he is. I don’t understand why these women are so personally offended by the fact that they don’t wish to date him. I get that they feel as though he treated them poorly. But again, take note of that and gracefully move on and find someone you do like.

I think that Justice of the Peace is not a BAD man. I think he has a strong personality and traits that are challenging to get along with. I actually can respect that he so adamently sticks to his guns. Would I ever date this man? Nope. He’s not for me. But I would take Juan Pablo over one of these petty girls!!

 

Post # 163
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

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@freshflowers:  This episode was sour grapes from sore losers.

Post # 164
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

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@Carolsays:  yup. Pretty much.

Post # 164
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Bumble bee

His family are his biggest critics. I don’t think any of them see him as the kind of person they would like to marry. They don’t seem to think he’s marriage material! 

Post # 165
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

This is going downhill quickly!

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