- 6 years ago
Driving me crazy! For Whatever reason, he’s been acting weird for a last few months. FH has been so busy with school, his friendships have taken a back burner. Well he’s been taking it out on me. I have tried to be understanding, but today he invited FH to a going away party for a mutual friend and specifically said I wasn’t invited. FH said he was speechless and told best man that he wouldn’t be coming with out me. He recieved a text tonight basically saying that he thinks I’m trying to end the friendship between them. What?? Okay maybe he’s upset his best friend isn’t free like he used to be and his free time has been spent doing couple things, but this guys acting like I’M physically doing something. I can’t force my FH to hang out with him and I’m not going to make “play-dates”. They are grown men with adult lives, communicte with each other, don’t take it out on me. I’m just so aggrivated with the people in my life. I need a vacation. After 6 years, it’s no surprise we go to some parties together. I like to give him space to be with his friends, but I think everyone would be like “why didn’t your Fiancee come to so-and-so’s going away party?” Argh, vent over.