(Closed) The best planning advice that a perfectionist like me could have ever gotten…

posted 11 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
5669 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’m with you! I’m such a perfectionist and every has deemed me as the easy going bride because I don’t ask for help since I want to do everything myself so I have full control.

But here is one other piece of advice. Ask for help. Trust in others and let them take some of the burden off your plate so you can ensure that you are enjoying your engagement as well.

Post # 4
11324 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

i think that is great advice! i recently realized that i’ve spent soooo much time “researching” and so little time deciding/doing. time to stop it and just make some damn decisions. lol

Post # 5
3219 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I wish i had seen this most months ago! This is totally me!

Post # 6
1675 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Yes, great advice!

I actually said recently to someone (probably my mother) that I think the reason I’ve found wedding planning to not be very stressful is that I am quite decisive and haven’t revisited any of the decisions I’ve made.

Something that occurred to me very early in the planning process that I’ve thought about continuously since: no one will know what you DIDN’T choose, so no one’s going to say, “Oh wow, she really should have gone with those other escort cards!” So long as you choose something that you like, and that fits in with the overall aesthetic of your event, you should be good to go!

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