(Closed) The Big O….Is it normal?

posted 11 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 17
234 posts
Helper bee

I agree with other posters that it is

1. Not weird at all!

2. Orgasms from different things feel very different. I prefer the orgasm from sex alone, honestly; I find it much more intense and consuming.

Just embrace your ease at orgasming! (Ever wake up from a sex dream because your orgasmed? That’s fun…)

Post # 18
5495 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

*bows head in shame* I just recently begane to hit the big “o”. And it was solo. I haven’t ever hit the “o” vaginally. So jealous.

Post # 19
3586 posts
Sugar bee

You aren’t weird. I’m the same way. And they are different. Both are good, but I prefer the intercourse ones to oral, although I like both in every session.LOL

Post # 20
2000 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Gosh, I remember posting about me not even being able to have an O!!! It freakin’ sucks! LOL..so to answer you question about how often I O with just intercourse…hm, none…:( It stinks! I’ve taken a lot of the ladies advice on here, though, and I’m going to find out what I enjoy most!!!

Post # 21
38 posts
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’m very jealous of you! I have been with my fiance for many years and have never been able to have the big O with intercourse only. Mine are usually from oral. 

Post # 22
4464 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I’m the same too.  I do everytime (at least once!) and it doesn’t take me that long either.  We must be freaks of nature ;o)

Post # 23
1212 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I have never from just intercourse. I always enjoy myself, but I can only O if I’m going solo or from oral. So consider yourself lucky!

Post # 24
226 posts
Helper bee

It’s just like you said, you’re more sensitive.  Everyone is different.  Some women can’t climax without clitoral stimulation, others can.  For me, I do climax from intercouse, but it’s not the same as when I climax from clitoral stimulation.

Post # 25
5870 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

That’s a special gift you have girl.  Don’t feel weird, feel BLESSED.

Post # 26
1568 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 1996

It’s extremely rare, if not impossible, for a woman to orgasm without clitoral stimulation, so those of you who get one every time must have figured out the right rhythm with your partners, good for you! Many many men and women alike have no idea how to stimulate a woman to orgasm, due to prevailing falsehoods in society that everyone ought to be able to climax with penetration alone. Pornography is a huge culprit here, due to its habit of filming shots of couples having sex with almost no physical contact other than vaginal intercourse – the clitoris is usually nowhere near the scene of the action. (Well, it’s only a few inches away, but what a difference a few inches makes.) Those of you who are having trouble, try positioning yourselves in such a way that exerts pressure on your clitoris during penetration, or be sure you and your partner understand the need to stimulate the clitoris before and/or after penetration. Many women who think they’re incapable of orgasm just haven’t tried the right thing yet, so keep at it!

Post # 27
1106 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

@Lees4308… You’re not the only one, doll… Unfortunately, I have the same problem too. I wish there was something. It only happens to me once in a blue moon. So unpredictable and completely frustrating!


Post # 28
10216 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

coughing with m every.single.time i can count maybe five times in the last 19 months I haven’t so maybe 99.9 percent of the time?  No matter the position but we are very very very sexually compatible.

Post # 29
20 posts
  • Wedding: May 2010

I orgasm every time- usually LOTS of times. According to Cosmo, only 7% of women are able to orgasm through penetration alone, so I guess that makes us weird, but lucky! 🙂

Post # 30
18628 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

You are very lucky.  Most women can’t orgasm from penetration alone.  But I am able to during sex with just a little bit of extra stimulation.

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