(Closed) The biggest letdown; my bridal party

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 31
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Sugar Beekeeper

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Post # 32
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: November 2015

That stinks that they are letting you down!  My girls are letting me down too, so I know how you feel.  The best you can try and do is let go because you can’t change your friends behavior, and try to focus on the fact that you will soon be married to the person you love!  I’m struggling with that too, but my Fiance is helping me by letting me vent and being supportive.

 

Hang in there!

Post # 33
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: July 2016

The problem today is that it’s  not like it used to be where people follow traditions and actually give a crap about their friends.  People today are all about “what are you going to do for me and what can I get from you?” instead of taking care of their friends…  I am with the bride on this because my bridal party did the same thing to me and it hurt my feelings because if you offered to take on that kind of responsibility then everything else should come with it. that’s common tradition and etiquette that you can read about online….  I understand that higher expectations means higher disappointments but I think the problem is that people have lowered their standards as to how to follow etiquette and that’s where people like myself with good morals and values who actually care about their friends become letdown because not everyone else does the same for us. it’s a cruel world we live in with a bunch of people with backwards priorities.  And it’s not that its a matter of “that’s life” or that she’s being naïve or gullible, it’s called having a heart and still living like this world used to be 50 or 60 years ago where people took care of each other.  Now someone has a baby or moves and nobody gives a crap anymore.  Same thing with weddings nobody gives a crap 

Post # 34
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Blushing bee

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olayorangegirl:  

Who cares if it’s her first post! We all start somewhere right? And who cares if it’s controversial. It’s a problem that’s bothering her and she came here to bounce off her feelings to others to help her get through it. You don’t have to be so mean about it! I hope your eyes roll so far back that you hurt yourself, you meanie!

 

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