(Closed) The Butterflies… Do you still get them?

posted 6 years ago in Married Life
Post # 33
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Date nights are soooooo important!!! It keeps the spark and romance alive πŸ™‚ I told him before we were married that date nights were going to be of the upmost importance in our marriage bc it keeps us feeling happy and connected, he totally agrees.

Post # 34
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

@adoc86:  I do this too–Mr. H blows glass (so awesome) and 2 nights a week, he’s at the shop working until after midnight. Even though I have to be up early for work the next day, I wait up for him each night. We make sure to eat dinner together every single night, regardless of what time it is. Some nights we eat at 1:30 and are in bed by 2. Other nights we have dinner at 7:30 and can relax after. But we always always have that moment together and I love that.

Post # 35
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I’ve been with my husband 8 years (1.5 married) and I still look forward to seeing him after we’ve been apart. We do date night every Friday where we both get dressed up and go to a nice dinner and get flirty with each other and catch each other up on our weeks. It’s what I look forward to every single week. I hate being away from him if either of us travels, too. We definitely still “date” each other and frequently surprise each other with silly or yummy gifts “just because” (he’ll get me flowers or a yummy dessert he thinks I’ll like, I’ll buy him his favorite bourbon or ice cream randomly). Still so, so in love with my man.

Post # 36
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

this thread is making me happy (and excited to see my sweetie when he gets home) πŸ™‚

Post # 37
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Yes, I do still get butterflies when I think of how much my husband loves me and blesses me. I love the butterflies πŸ™‚

Post # 38
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I do still get the butterflies after almost 5 years of being together. πŸ™‚ Sometimes I’ll be doing something like washing dishes or working on homework and he’ll look at me and say, “Wow.” I go “What?” and he says “You. You’re just so beautiful.” That is something that makes me feel like I could fly because I have never felt beautiful, not once in my life. Darling Husband has helped me to feel like I’m worth something. To him, I’m his everything, and I love that. He’s my everything too. πŸ™‚

Post # 39
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@redheadedstranger

This 100 times over!  Of course I get those little lusty butterflies, but the butterflies with wings so large that sweep me off my feet are those that come with his respect, sincerity, and a deep desire to see me loved happy.”


Thanks for making me cry!!! Hahaha No but really, I hope to keep my butterflies forever and with that I also hope that I can provide a good enough home and the great love and support my guy gives me so that he also continues to have “butterflies with wings so large that they sweep him off his feet”

Post # 40
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I don’t get butterflies but I melt. I literally turn to oozy gooey mush. I can feel mself get all warm and mushy inside. And I feel warm and fuzzy and I know beyond all reason that no one else can make me feel so much love that my heart seeps into every corner of my being. And it’s him.  It’s all him and only him. A look, a hug, a comment, a call, a text, a gesture. A thought cuz apparently it’s happening right now just thinking about him. 

Post # 41
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Yes yes yes!  I am fairly newly engaged, but have been with my FH for 7 years, and there are times that I am alone and this unbelievable wave of emotion and love for him envelopes me, and sometimes I even get teary. (Yeah, I’m a big sap…)  When I see him performing and in his element, or just being his amazing and kind self with others I look at him and can’t believe how incredibly much I love him but also can’t wait for him to just touch me or hold my hand at the end of the day.  Yay love!!!!

Post # 42
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Same here!! We have been together for 5 years and aren’t married yet but I can’t wait for when he comes home πŸ™‚ Just knowing he is home makes me happy. 

Post # 43
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I still get butterflies regularly with my partner. There are certainly days he drives me up a wall, but most of the time I do rush home to be with him. Yesterday I was working in an area near a mall I like (the only mall near me with Lush – I usually go out of my way to go there), but I knew my partner was at home and has been sad lately. Sure, he was going to still be asleep when I got home, but then i thougth about curling up next to him! (if you were curious, I still got my Lush – placed an online order while snuggling in bed, haha. Got my cake and ate it too!)

Post # 44
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 1994

Butterflies? No. But I have a deep appreciation and love for my husband. Our love is different than before.

Post # 45
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Like PP said, it isn’t so much butterflies as it is a warm and fuzzy feeling. I had the fattest of fat days yesterday. I felt so ugly and gross, and I caught him staring at me. I snapped asked him what he was looking at and he said “My life”. Within seconds, I was in such a good mood. He can piss me off so much sometimes, but I thank my lucky stars that I have him. He makes me feel desired and cherished, and I will never not love him as a result.

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