(Closed) When did it become ok to ask DIL about FDIL’s sex life. They’re all crazy.

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Good Lord!  I can’t imagine Jesus would ever want anyone to have to go through that type of interrogation!  And you are such a nice person for saving her. 

Post # 4
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Blushing bee

WOW is all i have to say!!!!!.. I don’t know why but I can’t stop laughing at the thought of my husbands mother coming to my house and doing that to my sil…  poor girl!!!!!!.. big hugs to her..  and you for having to deal with that

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011 - Bent Creek Winery (Livermore, California); Reception: Family Residence (San Ramon, California)

OMG, that sounds crazy! And I can’t believe you got dragged into the middle of that mess!

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Well, when they go into that religion they have clearly very strict rules and expectations for behavior. They are passionate about there faith and in this issue its not about privacy. If they need chaperones then this is not a surprise in regards to reaction to a question of purity.

I think coming to you house is certainly overkill and uncalled for. I’m assuming she is in a panicked state and just going to people she can trust!

So sorry this happened to you! thats pretty crazy!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Ohhh how difficult… no one knows what happens when they’re alone, the only people she can ask are the couple themselves. And really if it’s such a concern she should go to her SON, not parade his fiance around to all their family trying to make her feel like a slut. I can’t believe she went to you about that, that’s insane!! I mean really, how would you know?

Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Um wow. Thats one of the most ridiculous things I’ve ever heard. MYOB LADY!!!

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Oh wow. I’m so sorry you have to deal with this. Jehovahs are just nuts. My friend got banned from their church for dating her future husband–they don’t just throw you out. None of her family was allowed to see her or speak to her on penalty of being exiled themselves. Her dad broke the rules for her a couple times when her mom was dying and let her sneak in the back of the house to see her. I can’t even imagine what that would be like; it totally wrecked my friend. I’m so sorry your in such a spot, it’s a really tough place to be, and it sounds like DH’s mom is hardcore.

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Wow and how did you deal with this MIL? 

If this were to happen to me and my Fiance would allow this to happen like this guy, It’s be a total deal breaker.  No way would I deal with this woman for the rest of my life!

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

CRAZY.

Post # 14
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Um wow. Any Jehovah’s witness I’ve met has been crazy, so I get it. I don’t understand why anyone would live a life like that.

Hell, if I were your Future Sister-In-Law, I would have told my mom every sordid detail, just to make her run and tell and not have to see those crazy people again

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Oh, that poor girl! I love your reply to SM though!

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