(Closed) The Crazy S$#% Your FI does for you that confirms why you are marrying him :)

posted 7 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 77
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

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@zoso90:  My Fiance makes me coffee every morning too! He is out of town this weekend, and I work on weekends, so it is KILLING me, lol.

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@nanikoa:  I absolutely LOVE that you thought he was bringing you Popeye’s chicken strips. Best thing EVER.

My Fiance is unbelievable. He does all the dishes because I detest doing dishes, and brings me coffee while I lie in bed moaning about the sun hurting my eyes, lol.

Also, I suffer from a condition called cluster headaches, which is like really, really intense migraines, only I get them several times a day for about a month (fortunately only once every year or two). This last cycle, the medicine I use didn’t work as well as it normally does, and I had LOTS of really intense headaches. Fiance was my ROCK. For like two weeks, I was barely functional, and he cared for me, made food, researched homeopathic treatments, rubbed my neck, took me to the doctor, etc, etc. I’m crying just thinking of it. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 78
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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@howsweetitis:  Cluster headaches suck!!! I recently came off a 3 month cycle that was insane! Meds gave me relief for all of 5 minutes and it was back to battling them again. Please keep in mind I was also studying for law exams during that time. Ugh. Best of luck to you!

Now…to the matter at hand…

Things that confirm my Fiance is the one to marry:

  • He rubs my feet or my back just because.
  • He cleaned up my vomit when I had a really bad reaction to some meds.
  • He cooks for me often and always presents the food all fancy on the plate as if he’s on Iron Chef. Lol.
  • He often surprises me with things / treats that I mentioned randomly in a conversation.
  • He opens my braids.
  • He shaved my vagina when I was between waxes. He did it because I complained I wasn’t in the mood to get another brazilian and I hated shaving myself cuz certain spots I can’t reach properly. He really took his time though…and he did an amazing job! He admitted it turned him on. Lol.
  • Whenever I’m sick, he always asks what he can do / get for me. Even if I tell him there’s nothing I need, he gets me some kind of treat or applicable meds.
  • He rubs my tummy when I have period cramps (though he knows doing that doesn’t ease the actual pain).
  • When he has time off from work, the first thing he does is ask me if there’s anything I want us to do and based on what I say, he plans his time off accordingly. So…he not only tells me our relationship is a top priority…he shows me!

I can go on and on and on but I’ll stop now. You ladies have some amazing men as well! Let me admit though..before I read this thread, he and I were arguing and I left him in another room while I stewed in the bedroom and read the Bee. He came to me and I was still angry so I ignored him and continued browsing. Then I came across this thread and I started to think about all good things about him and my anger from the argument melted away…and I went to him and told him I loved him!Smile

 

 

 

 

 

Post # 80
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

he strokes my hair pretty much every day to relax me

he puts in ear drops for me when i have a problem with my ears, while i flop around like a dying fish whimpering (i haaate ear drops)

he came with me to my 3 hour glucose tolerance test as he knows im freaked out by needles and having an IV in would stress me out

he drove me across town as i was dying for ihop chocolate chip pancakes and the one near our house was out of chocolate chips (and my pregnant self nearly cried when they told me hahaha). in fact he’s so excited about the baby he’s doing anything he can think of to make me happy

this thread is giving me the warm and fuzzies =)

Post # 81
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

When I forget to iron my uniform for the next day he is always up and ironing it for me before I realize I dont have it for the day. If I fall asleep on the couch he moves me to the bedroom so I dont hurt my neck. But the one thing I know that he is the one because no matter how small or important my doctor appointment is he always takes off work so he can be there with me and learn what might change in our future since I have a chronic condition. He takes it to heart and I really like having him there through the good news and bad news.

Post # 82
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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@minted:  Aweee!!! Today Fiance waited 4 hours with me at the doc’s office without complaining.

Post # 83
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

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@DolceVita:  I’m shocked he’ll do it because he has to be bribed with a weekend of golf just to go in for a checkup every year but he willing joins me for mine and is really involved. Guys are so cute when it comes to some stuff

Post # 84
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

fh paints my toes and take forever trying to pick the right color lol also I’m preggers and he’ll run out at 3am to get ginger ale or anything I need even if I tell him I’m fine ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Post # 85
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Jacksonville Inn

My partner spoils me rotten, I’m so lucky to have her. She shaves my legs for me because I hate doing it. She moisturizes my feet for me because she doesn’t want them to get dry and crack. I had a complete hysterectomy 2 weeks ago, including my ovaries. She has been so patient with my emotional outbursts and hot flashes. When I start looking flush she runs and grabs me an ice pack out of the freezer. The other night she got up at 3am to get me one because I woke up with a horrible hot flash. The 2 months prior to my surgery I ended up in the ER twice in pain, it was awful. Each time she held me and rocked me ( I was in so much pain I couldn’t sit still ). She was so patient and loving. After my surgery she stayed my entire stay with me. She came in with me and she refused to leave until I did. She slept in a hard chair and ate crappy and over priced hospital food. She walked me up and down the hall ways in the middle of the night when I couldn’t sleep and changed my bloody pads for me. Also, before surgery she bought me a super soft panda bear and blanket so I would have something soft and comforting on my bed. She’s an amazing woman, I’m so blessed.

Post # 86
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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@HisMoon:  That sounds so cool! Can you find out what it’s called from him?

Post # 87
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Love it!  My FH has a recurring reminder in his phone with a “BUY CHOCOLATE” note, timed to recur the week before my TOM ๐Ÿ˜›  I couldn’t believe it when it buzzed once when I was closest to his phone… and apparently he’d had it in there for a while ๐Ÿ˜›  Kissing ensued ๐Ÿ˜›

Post # 88
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Sugar bee

@Barbiestylez:  he does my eyebrows! LOL but thats mostly because im lazy and he is better at shaping them. Is that weird? That is weird hahaha.

Post # 90
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

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@luluvohn:  Heads Up Charades!

Post # 91
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

We’re oddly disgusted/fascinated by Courtney Stodden.   We always click on links that have “news” stories on her and always watch her youtube “music videos” before she was married.  One of her best is called Don’t put it on me, girl.


So if Fiance and I are getting in a heated argument or things are getting out of hand he can usually stop himself and quote bits of her songs and it sends us into hysterics.   He can diffuse tension 100%

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