- Divahlicious Make up
- 6 years ago
Lately I have been considering re-dedicating my self to my husband of twelve years. He is my best friend , my love and most of all he is my soul mate sent to me by my mother. Heres our story. May I suggest if you are getting ready to get married and are already feeling emotional, please grab a few tissues before you read this. Even though I have lived this myself it still makes me cry my self. Hold on Ill be right back……….
Ok. I was working as a bartender in a very busy Nj bar. In walks my husband as he had done sevral times before. He would sit down in front of me, order a soda and not say a word. Personally I thought the guy was creepy and he scared me because he was quite tall and built like a foot ball player. My husband kept comming in for weeks , each time leaving me these huge tips-which later on I found out came from him. A few weeks later my mom calls me on the phone from the hospital ; she was dying from a disease called Lupus , which I myself have now. She did her Mom thing.. you ladies know this one… When are you gonna get married and settle down with the right man ( by the way she threw in the right man because this is my second marriage) She than said to me, I will find a man for you and send him to you. I thought to myself how are you gonna do this?? But I never questioned my Mom, I just groaned an ok sure and blew kisses through the phone told her I loved her and the next day she died. The next day instead of working I actually went to the bar to drink myself into a coma because I was young, frustrated and sad! In walks my husband. As he walked into the bar the chair next to me fell over and he stopped by to pick it up. Oh I have an important side note to add. The night before-before I got the bad news I made a large lasagna. For no reason or so I thought. Ok so he sat down next to me looking and smelling soo good and there I was with a pile of tissues and masscara all over my face you know what he said to me? You are the most beatiful human being I have ever seen in my life. He and I then spent the next five hours drinking and crying. I invited him to my house, something inside of me told me that this was the man, besides I think my mom was the one whom knocked that chair over! That night I fed him . He asked me to marry him that night and I said YES!! We have been happy together for twelve years now! We got married in a civil service and I was thinking that it would be nice to have a rededication this June. Maybe I will serve lasagna!!! Smile ladies…you too can have that happy ending!