(Closed) “The Dress”…Need Advice!

posted 9 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
778 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

That dress is gorgeous.  I can see why you love it.  I suggest one of two things:

  1. That they keep the dress at a good level, not too tight when getting fitted.
  2. I would have a 2nd dress for after dinner so you can party the night away without feeling constrained.  There are a ton of white short dresses right now for under $200, many under $100.

Congrats on your dress purchase, and don’t try to over think it.  You love the dress so much, and you ordered it.  It’s yours and I’m sure you will look beautiful in it.  Be sure to send some pictures of you in once you have it.


Post # 4
424 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I would probably do a less expensive dress for the last few hours of the reception that you would be comfortable in.

By The Way…. I LOVE THIS DRESS!! It’s definitely a dress I want to try on. SOOO PRETTY!!!

Post # 5
960 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I don’t know about your dress (which is swoon-worthy, btw) but my mermaid dress just arrived so I have some advice. Get a size 4. I don’t think it’s too late. I’m small, in street clothes I can go between a 0-4. For my dress we went back and forth over ordering a 4 or a 6 and I’m soooo glad we got the 6. I will say that it is very snug in the hips. Because of this, I’m going to get a reception dress. Obviously you’ll need to wait until the dress actually comes in to make that decision for yourself, but be prepared that it’s one you might need to make. I got such a great deal on my dress that getting one for $200 is doable for me.

Again, your dress is amazing and you still have over a year until your wedding, so that is a good thing. Good luck!

Post # 6
14183 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Wow it’s so pretty! And I hate to freak you out, but my MOH’s sister got married in a similiar style dress but it was all beaded (ie heavy) and she is 6 feet tall and got a size 2. And my Maid/Matron of Honor said she could BARELY sit in it and needed help moving around. It was TIGHT and she couldn’t bend.

Give yourself some room to breathe! Or get a second dress. But, obviously the bride in the pic was able to get on that bench like that so maybe it’s not so bad?!

Sorry i know that freaked you out and is not what you wanted to hear. Maybe the seamstress can give you a little more space in the hips so it flows a LITTLE but is still a mermaid?

Post # 7
372 posts
Helper bee

The pic of the model might be deceptive – they could have pinned it after she sat down to make it look as good as it does – I used to handle photoshoots and we did that all of the time, though not with wedding dresses.  Just trying to help!!

Post # 8
1042 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I would def call the salon back and order it in a 4. Insist on it. That way it can be altered down to a 2 easily if you change your mind!

Peace of mind is worth it!

Post # 9
262 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I agree with the other bees on here.  Wedding dresses tend to run small and it is so much easier to get a dress taken in then deal with a dress that is too tight.  And yes, then once you try on the actual dress, find out how it feels to move in and if it feels uncomfortable, get a short dress for the reception.

 The dress is absolutely beautiful, what a great find!  Congrats on your upcoming wedding AND finding your dress!

Post # 10
2249 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2018

so pretty!!! no advice here- just some dress admiration 🙂

Post # 11
4480 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

Get the 4!! Altering down is much, much easier than altering up.

Post # 12
9 posts
  • Wedding: July 2009

What are you measurements? I ordered an Alvina Valenta mermaid style dress in a size 4, and it was WAY too much on me. MUCH  bigger than it should have been based on the sizing chart. I’m around 32-24-34.5 and the dress was so huge all over. I went with the 4 because according to the charts that’s what I needed, but seriously I’m sure the 2 would have been a bit big on me too. I’m getting my alterations done now too and it’s in no way tight around the lower hips, I won’t have any problems walking or feel uncomfortable in the least.

Alvina Valenta is great, and I would not worry about the size!

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