(Closed) The embarrassing bridesmaid (and a post-wedding problem) — advice?

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bumble bee

Lol I think everyone has one of those friends. They are great in certain situations but make you cringe in others.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

You could not post anything on FB the rest of the week, then claim you never got her note… 😉

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Amnesia!  “Oh! I totally forgot you said you wanted to come!”

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Make it a “date night”– even lie and say your hubby is going with you and it’s going to be just the two of you.  If she catches you later you can just say he canceled last minute so you made different plans!

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2019 - Paris, France

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@atalante: +1

Post # 10
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I would just ignore her

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

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@Wannabe-diy-bride: “Whoops, left my phone on silent, didn’t hear it.”

“My phone is acting kind of wierd.”

“I left my phone on the charger.”

 

Aw, it makes me kinda sad that I have so many answers for this thread. Embarassed

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Um. I can’t believe you DIDN’T already blow up on her. Kudos to you, because I would have embarassed MYSELF kicking her out of my wedding. Don’t let her come to the even with you, and if she asks why, tell her the truth. Clearly, someone needs to.

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

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@reine_de_rien: No kidding! 

OP, I would’ve gone mad if she were at my wedding, and usually I’m fairly zen! Give her one of the lovely excuses provided by PPs, and try to avoid her at all costs outside of work. Claim that you and your DH are just busy wrapping things up after the wedding or something.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

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@Wannabe-diy-bride: Just flake on her..be like ohh yea Ill call you…then dont do it. Shell get the hint. 

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