(Closed) The End of my "Fairytale"

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
331 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Holy bajoley! I am so sorry this happened to you. What a c word. 

Hugs Xx 

Post # 4
8584 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

My heart breaks for you, but I am so glad that you realize that he was no good.

Sometimes we just fall in love with the wrong people. We miss their lives because all we see is the good in them. I’ve been there, too.

I really think he does have an actual problem, and he probably does need help. But I think you really did dodge a bullet with him, because you will never get the intimate-couple relationship you are after.

I hope you find someone who deserves your love soon!

Post # 5
1066 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2014 - Kentucky Center for the Performing Arts

Thank God you found out before you walked down the aisle with the jerk. And I would sell the damn ring, he wouldn’t get it back. You have emails, etc to prove infidelity on his part and as the reason you two broke up. If you went to small claims court I doubt he would get it back based on your evidence…but Im no lawyer so who knows.

Post # 6
1048 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

It may not feel like it right now but you have had a lucky escape. Thank the stars each night that you did not marry this creep. As for the ring, I am definitely not a legal expert but generally I believe engagement rings are classed as gifts and you are under no obligation to return them. 

Post # 7
3378 posts
Sugar bee

@nikbee:  Shitty situation. Glad you finally saw the light.

Post # 8
149 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

OMG!!!! I am so so sorry you are had to go through that!!! He does not deserve you, you deserve so much better.

How dare he put you through all that and then have the nerve to ask for the ring back.  I would sell the ring and treat myself to a trip away wtih friends.


Post # 9
714 posts
Busy bee

@nikbee:  Oh my! All the best to you! What an aweful, aweful person. You’ll be so much better of without him. Stay strong!

Post # 10
581 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@nikbee:  Wow… I’m sorry he did that to you. And as much as it might not seem like it now, I think this is the beginning of your fairytale… It is the beginning of a better time in your life where you can find a guy who deserves you 🙂

Post # 11
1650 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I’m sorry that you had to go through this, but I’m sure that you will come out of this on top, and you’ll find a person who deserves you. 

Post # 12
5137 posts
Bee Keeper

Holy hell! I was gobsmacked by what I just read. I am so glad you are not with him anymore. You deserve better. Sounded like you always deserved better.

I know you loved him but that sounded like an insane situation. Cut ties with his Mom, tell her if she rings again you will get her done for harrassment. It sounded like she supported his behaviour. I really hope that from here on out you are blessed and happy.


Also, I would be getting those dogs. He doesn’t deserve shit.

Post # 13
1650 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@nikbee:  I also wanted to say, keep your head held high. He doesn’t deserve you. You deserve much better.

Post # 14
4528 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

You may not feel that way now, but you seriously dodged a bullet. In time, you will realize that you deserve better, that you deserve a man who respects you enough to be faithful to you. I wish you all the best

Post # 15
293 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

You seriously dodged a bullet here with your ex. Seriously. I’m so glad you can see it now. However, since you know he’s had sex with AT LEAST one woman while you were together, which you didn’t know about . . . I think you need to get tested for sexually transmitted diseases. It’s not pleasant to think about, but he clearly didn’t have your best interests at heart EVER in the relationship, so he probably didn’t make sure to use protection or ensure that he wouldn’t pass anything on to you.

And sell that ring, take a nice little vacation with the proceeds. Or get a dog, or something else fun.

Post # 16
515 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Good for you getting out of it before the wedding.  Whereas I’m normally an advocate of returning rings if the relationship breaks down, in this case you deserve a holiday or something with the proceeds from the ring (only exception would be if it’s a family heirloom on their side). Good luck and wishing you happines for the future.

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