Post # 1
Off…. For a while at least…. He’s too immature to truly understand the meaning of marriage and I’m not entirely sure why it took me this long to realize how much he needs to grow up before I commit to marriage. Thanks ladies for all the help and supprot you have given me… Hopefully the dumbass will grow up and I will be back on this site before you know it… Until then Enjoy planning and loving your amazing Fiance and DH!
Post # 3
Oh no =( well at least you were able to see it before it was too late! I hope you can get back on track and come back to us! =) good luck!
Post # 4
*hugs* i see you have only been engaged for a short period. can i just say that my then Fiance and i never argued until we became engaged and then everything seemed to be a argument/hassle and we didnt communicate, i was stressed about throwing myself into a wedding while feeling he didnt seem to care and at one point i asked myself “can i do this for the rest of my life?”. i just wanted to say this in case you its touches anything that you are feeling right now
i hope the two of you can communicate thru this – be kind to yourself, you ARE going to be ok
Post # 5
Thank you both so very much… It was a terribly decision but he is just not willing to sacrifice anything he wants in life to make things work… and until he realizes life is not always going to be his way or no way… he isnt going to be able to have my hand in marriage.
@eloping: You helped me so much… we are at least on talking terms now… and I decided I did not want to break up completely with him because I do love him but he needs to realize some things before Ill accept a proposal…. thank you for your help!