(Closed) the EX wants to meet with me

posted 1 month ago in Relationships
Post # 35
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

newbiebee1977 :  High expectations like their father providing the bare minimum for them like underwear and a wardrobe?  You guys have a whole extra room for your stuff and this guy can’t even buy a wardrobe for his children to hang a few pieces of clothes in?

He can afford new rings for you, boudoir photo shoots but can’t pay for this own child’s health care?  You chose to marry a man with two children so you need to accept that their needs come way before your wants. If you don’t like it then find a guy without kids, but don’t try and turn this guy into a deadbeat dad while preaching about being christian. 

Post # 36
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

Ugh, you’re a saint. I can’t belive the gall of this woman.

newbiebee1977 :  

Post # 37
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2019 - City, State

slomotion :  Bahahahaha!!! Well at least someone understands OP!

newbiebee1977 :  There is a whole lot wrong here but you just dont get it and you never will. Can you send me the ex’s contact info so I can let her know how sorry I am that this is how her life turned out? Like honestly, you messeged her your boudior pics?? Give your head a shake!! This poor worman…

Post # 38
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2019

Oh my god, keep going with this. This is what I need to get through the day. slomotion :  

Post # 39
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

Bee, I mean this with all sincerity. Please, please get some help. Your lack of self awareness and how your actions affect others is beyond astounding. These poor kids are stuck in the middle of this shit storm through no fault of their own and someone needs to be an adult in your relationship. Their mother seems to be doing the best she can with the cards she was dealt (cheated on, dumped for the mistress and left with two kids that she has to constantly wrestle the father to take care of). I am not saying she is innocent as I don’t know her but you need to wake up and see that you and your husband are exacerbating everything. 

Post # 41
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

And honestly, she is probably jealous of your looks. I mean, maybe if she looked better she wouldn’t have lost her man. JUST SAYING!

Post # 43
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479 posts
Helper bee

Your mother should have swallowed tongue-out

Post # 44
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1376 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

Bwahahahahaha! Bonus Mom is back!  Ahhh I missed this!

Post # 45
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

Bee, what’s going on with your DH? I know he was having problems in the church because they moved him to the back of the choir. Did they ever get that sorted out?? newbiebee1977 :  

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