(Closed) The first big fight/argument

posted 9 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2005 - Westside Loft, New York

I don’t think we had a single fight before we got married. Have we had them post wedding?  Yep.  

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2008 - 1930s Historic Building in Lakeland, FL

We haven’t had a "big" fight, but there have certainly been tiny arguments where we’ll get upset with each other for about 5 minutes.  I don’t know about the "big" fight, I’m kind of afraid to have it, I feel like we had some major fights the year and a half of our engagement, it’s been nice not having drama in our newlywed life!

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

not one yet, but i’m sure there will be plenty in the future.

🙂 

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2007

Haha – Everytime we attempt a home improvement project 🙂  There’s been others too – guess it’s a good sign I can’t remember ‘the big one’ or even what most of them have been about.

Post # 8
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2008

We really don’t fight about anything either.. Maybe stupid petty stuff, but we’re laughing again in 5 minutes.  I will say that the most uncomfortable fight or disagreement that has happened recently is putting ourselves on a huge budget.  Money isn’t great right now (with the economy) and the Mr. is facing a possible lay off in the next 2-3 months, so we are trying to prep for the worst.  It’s really hard facing reality with our own financial messes.. and now it’s really going to be tough.  So hopefully your financial situation is not in a bind and you’ll be able to be fight free for the new year! 

Post # 9
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Helper bee

Our first big fight was on our honeymoon.  I meant to blog about that but seem to have slipped off my honeymoon blogging efforts.

Anyway, I wanted to buy a piece of glass in Murano and Mr Corn had already put down money for a leather jacket for me in Rome, so he said I could buy it with my money.  Of course, I was so upset because it was supposed to be OUR money now that we were married. 

 

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2018 - St. Charles Borromeo Church/Jefferson-Orleans North

Our biggest fight so far is music at the ceremony. Since I was a teen, I promised my sister she could sing the ceremony. Well, Fiance doesn’t like that idea, and so far she is singing one song. It stinks but things require compromise and patience, I guess 🙂

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

Not really. We don’t really argue. We’re both just not fighters by nature, and we both had previous long-term relationships that were really stressful – and we don’t want that again! We don’t always agree, but we manage to always come to a compromise or solution without fireworks. We’re firm believers in "when your wrong admit it; when you’re right shut up." We also will "pass" decisions on certain topics to one person or the other. Both of us put in our input, but we leave it to the more experienced one to make the final call. For example, Darling Husband makes final decisions about home repair and cars, and I make the final call on finance and health matters.

But I’m sure an argument is inevitable – I think it will probably be about finanaces or parenting. Darling Husband is a spender; I’m a saver. And we grew up in very different families/situations.

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