(Closed) the future father in law has never been more FRUSTRATING!!!!

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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898 posts
Busy bee

Whether it’s your religion or something else that has made him act this way, please don’t believe that there is something wrong with you. There’s NOT!

I’m sure that as the wedding gets closer, he will just have to suck it up and get over it. No parent wants to miss their child’s wedding day, so I’m sure he will come around.

Many hugs sent your way, and I hope that your FH’s dad comes around. But you can’t force it, so just remind yourself that it isn’t your fault…he will have to learn acceptance.

Post # 5
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1490 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I feel so sorry for your fiance. It’s horrible when parents can’t support their children. Keep planning your wedding and send FOG an invitation. Whether or not he comes, you’ll celebrate with those who love you and want to be there.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

Is your Fh going to talk to his dad about what’s eating him?  That would be the best way to figure this out.  My guess is that if your Future Father-In-Law is pretty religious, that this is about religion.  How intoo being a JW is your FI?  I’m thinking if you have a strong Baptist background, your FFIl is concerned your Fiance is going to convert.  Is your wedding JW friendly?  Or mostly a Baptist ceremony? 

I obviously can’t say.  But I think if your Fiance talks to him, it would help.  (Particualrly if your Fiance plans to remain a JW.)  And have you planned how you’d raise the kids?  He might be worried about that too.

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