(Closed) The gender is in a sealed envelope AND….

posted 4 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
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1775 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I would feel sad about this too.  I am hoping that he is going to spin it later as he wanted to make you wait a little longer to tease you or that he uses the time to get you some flowers or something.  Sometimes guys are just dumb!

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

🙁 Yeah, I’d be really pissed…. hopefully he comes around and you get to enjoy the surprise together! Keep us posted!!! I bet it’s a boy :):)

Post # 6
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3081 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Aww I’m sure he’s excited, and I know you didn’t mean to at all, but you kind of put him in a tough position likely without knowing. I bet he’ll show his excitement when he gets home. Try to take it easy on him and enjoy the reveal!

Post # 8
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4528 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

I’d be less than impressed with that reaction too. Sorry 🙁

Post # 9
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7106 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’m sorry 🙁 I would certainly be disappointed as well. I would expect his co-workers to understand if he told them that he could not longer go out to dinner because he is going out with his wife to find out the gender of his baby!

Post # 12
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309 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

awww, I’d be disappointed too.  As soon as he comes home, open that envelope!! 🙂

Post # 13
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4433 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@MrsTeasandkeys:  i’d be pissed too. but sounds like he really just wanted a night out.  maybe he had a stressful week. 

Post # 14
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3727 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@MrsTeasandkeys:  This is where you call him back and tell him that you’d really like to be the cool wife who is ojay with this, but that’s not you and you’ll resent him for not making these events special.  Then tell him where you’ll be going to dinner to find out the sex of your baby and to celebrate buying the house and encourage him to join.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@MrsTeasandkeys:  i mean……..even if you ARE being oversensitive, which i don’t think you are…….. you’re pregnant! you’re allowed to be

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