(Closed) The GROOM is planning the wedding?!

posted 7 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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204 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Hmm, if it wasn’t for the “Luke,” I might think you were engaged to my fiance. 😉 I keep trying to give input, but I feel pretty useless. Like yours, my man is a HUGE procrastinator. He is late to everything. He was probably born late. 😉

Post # 4
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1846 posts
Buzzing bee

My sister got married while she was finishing med school and her Darling Husband planned everything but dresses and food. He is painfully detail oriented though so it worked for her. 

If your wedding really isn’t until oct 2013 I don’t see what you could possibly be behind on at this point. Some women getting married in oct 2013 might not even be engaged yet! 

For your piece of mind I might download one of those 12 month wedding checklists and hand it over to him, but let him know that if “venue” is a month 6 activity that you would really like it sealed and done in that month and not after. Then you get updates on the planning, he gets to plan, and you know that no one is drastically behind 

Post # 5
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1577 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Girl, good luck.. I could never hand it all over to my Fiance.  LoL. Mostly because I really enjoy it & have been looking forward to this for years.

I think he’d do a good job, BUT until we started planning & I started dragging him around to different places, he really didn’t realize how early things needed to be done.  He thought I was being ridiculous until we actually visited places & found out that there were others also inquiring about services for our same date.  It’s like everything I say is “crazy”, until someone “professional” tells him the same damn thing I said.  LoL.

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