(Closed) The hellhound that is my Mother-in-law.

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Doesn’t seem like you have a problem with your mother in law. It seems like you have a problem with your husband. If he can’t stand up for you and the family you three have together, something is going to give, and at this rate it’s either going to be your sanity or your relationship with the man you love.

Post # 5
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Helper bee

@MrsFuzzyFace:  I have a few worthless FIL’s as well. I definatly feel your pain. If Fiance had more family I just wouldn’t go anywhere near them and they will NEVER be alone with my children after the crap they have pulled thoughout FI’s life. 

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@MrsFuzzyFace:  Oh geez, sorry. I did read the whole thing but I guess that didn’t stand out to me XD I’m glad that you at least have him on your side. Sometimes there’s really not too much you can do about women like that. Purge your life of the drama and stay happy ๐Ÿ™‚

Currently struggling with a similar situation with my fiance. He wants to change things about the wedding (date, number of guests, etc etc) to appease them and keep his relationship with them drama free. My most used comment lately has been “Well, you can stay drama free with the people you see twice a year…. OR WITH YOUR WIFE”. So far it’s been working lol

Post # 8
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Blushing bee

Wow,  I’m glad you are out of the situation with his mother. 

Post # 9
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Wow, glad you could stand your ground. We have big issues with Future Mother-In-Law but not on those kinds of issues. Glad you took your lives back ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 10
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250 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

“If you so much as open your cocksucker”- that made my night. Good for you girl.

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@MrsFuzzyFace:  Wow, that is incredible. Anyone with shitty FIL’s needs to read that! ๐Ÿ™‚

I’m pleased you both disowned her and live happily now. I actually think you handled the whole situation pretty well, all things considered, especially disowning her!

Post # 13
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2010

As much as it seems like your husband is blissfully drama free, I doubt it. He has got to be pretty torn up about not having a relationship with his own mother.

Post # 15
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2010

@MrsFuzzyFace:  

He might say that, but I still doubt he really feels that way. Honestly, I have had some bad moments with my own mother, but it would hurt like hell to push her out of my life completly. I realize your husband and I are two different people, but I find it hard to believe he really feels 100% okay with it. Especially since he had co dependant issues prior to the broken relationship. People don’t generlly just heal, eventually the inner turmoil will surface. Unless he is of course doing therapy and such to come to terms with the reality.

Post # 16
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Wow. Ugh. I’m sorry you had to deal with that, but I am SO glad that you got your husband to remove her from your lives.

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