(Closed) The “i’m saving money babe” excuse is getting pretty lame!

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: was money the 'hold up ' in your moving forward ?
  • Post # 33
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    301 posts
    Helper bee

    my guy has plenty of money for the ring, the wedding, everything! which actually makes waiting more difficult because he doesn’t really have a viable excuse like that…

    Post # 34
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    196 posts
    Blushing bee

    @LissaGettingMarried: I’ve found that for my SO, having the proposal be “his” is terribly important to him. He would be extremely hurt, if I took that from him and proposed to him myself. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve thought about that more than once, but I wouldn’t want to take that from him.

    @chesseplease: I can definitely empathize with you. It is very difficult to wait with that excuse, especially when you are want him not to have to spend that much (as in my case). All I can recommend is let him do it when he’s ready. I’m sure he will appreciate that.

    Post # 35
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    201 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    It sounds like he’s probably not ready to commit…

    Post # 36
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    Newbee

    I am not going to assume things. If you are 20 and want to get married, then get married. I don’t know you from Adam, so whatever works for you.

    It sounds like you should just have an honest conversation with him about it. if he seems weird about it, he’s not ready.

    Or maybe he’s like my SO and just bad with money. Lol.

    Post # 37
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Hes prolly just having a hard time adjusting and growing up….. Your still young…. Give him some time. Mine took 3.5 years and hes 26

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