Post # 32
There are tons of things that Fiance does that just make my heart skip a beat, but the one that stands out:
We were just dating – maybe a month or two and I was having a really bad day. It was cold outside, an X was being a pill and just draining me mentally. I was hella busy and totally ehausted. I was also teaching a class at church that night and had come home to a dirty house – ugh! We were talking on the phone while I was loading the washer and he said “Are you in the garage ? ”
“well open the door”
so I hit the button and opened the garage door and there he was, holding 2 hot chocolates.
He said ” I just thought you could use a hug”
I was floored. The fact that this man has listened to me vent (about an X, no less), driven 40 miles, and knew that all I really needed was a hug was just too much. I cried and drank hot chocolate in the driveway with him. Hands down, one of the most thoughful things anyone has ever done for me. I couldn’t believe he knew me so well after such a short time.
**No – I wasn’t being mean by making him stand outside. I have a morality clause in my divorce to protect my children. No person of a dating relationship in the house after a certain time for either me or the XH. So he drove all the way to my house knowing he wouldn’t even be able to come in!
We’ve since talked about that night and he confessed he was so nervous – he was afraid he was overstepping his boundries…. so sweet.
Post # 33
When I’m stressed or upset, he’ll hold me tight and run his fingers through my hair and kiss my forehead. He’s such a wonderful source of support!
Post # 34
He got up early this morning to turn a heater on in the bathroom so I wouldn’t be cold when I was getting ready for work.
Post # 35
Every Monday and Wednesday night I have class and when I get home at 9ish the dinner is always done.
Another nice gesture, he knows I am a “wino” I love a good bottle of wine, he stocks the wine bar for me weekly with a different bottle! It’s like a wine tasting at my house weekly!
I love him…..
Post # 36
Querida that is so sweet. The other ones are great too ladies 🙂
My FH and I have been living together for almost 4 yrs and every morning before he goes to work, he gives me a kiss on my forehead or cheek depending on which sleeping position I’m in, I think that is so sweet after that many yrs of living together.
One more. My FH works for a utility company in NJ and had to go away for Hurricane Ike in Texas last year for about 5 weeks. Before he left, he surprised me with two tickets to a concert that he was going to take me to but had to give them to me early since he was going to be away. I couldn’t decide on who I was going to take to the concert because I really wanted to go with him, well to make a long story short there was a knock on the door about 2 weeks later in the evening and who I thought was my Future Brother-In-Law ( they’re identical twins) who was going to hand me a package ( we live next door to each other) and not even realizing who was handing me the package it was my FH who was standing there and I just started crying bc I had been missing him like crazy. He and his twin had it all planned. LoL Well he suprised the hell out of me!! We ended up going to the concert after all because he came back earlier than expected.