Post # 1
Well I posted a few weeks ago that me an my so r going to Italy on 14th August for a 4 night break an I was hoping that he would propose then , the more I think about it the less likely I feel it’s gonna happen . When we first booked the holiday I was so excited thinking this is his big chance etc but now it’s getting close my gut is saying …. na he’s got no intention of popping the question while away . We had a talk last week which I told him exactly how I felt about getting engaged and how I don’t want to b just plodding along for the next year or so etc an he said he understood. Ah I’m just feeling deflated , I’ve booked a nail appointment for a few days before we go …. just incase , I told him I was gonna treat myself An get my nails done but he just said okay , lol just needed to vent somewhere if u got to the end thanks for reading 🙂
Post # 2
I’ve been to Italy several times with my fi, and 3 of those times I thought he might propose while we were away. I was eventually right but the first two trips I think I would have enjoyed more if I hadn’t been wondering “This is a gorgeous moment… will he propose??” or “Look at that view! That’s a view to get engaged in front of!” (I know it’s easy to say let it go when you’re not the one waiting!)
You both know you’re heading towards an engagement, you have something of a timeframe (within a year), and you’re getting to go to a wonderful country full of good food, good wine, good weather, and gelato! Where are you going in Italy?
Post # 3
I agree with ukbea the more you focus on whether he will propose or not just kills the joy of having fun. go to Italy and just enjoy the moment,
Speaking from experience i couldnt wait for my ex FI to propose to me i knew the time, date and place of the proposal as months went on i realised that i didnt want to be engaged or i wasnt sure anymore…
Just relax and I’m sure when he is ready he will propose…
Post # 4
You’re going to have a wonderful time with memories made anyway. You know it’s coming so don’t over think the moments.
Post # 5
Thanks everyone we are going to lake Maggiore . We won’t b able to go abroad again very easily because between us we have 4 children , 2 each ,so this is a rare opportunity 😀 He said he wanted it to b special I can’t think of any other opportunity he will get 😰 X
Post # 6
As others have said, try to enjoy this holiday for what it is and put a possible proposal out of your head.