(Closed) The most beautiful worst day….our wedding

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 18
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

That is a wonderful idea!! Take the trip of your dreams and wear your wedding dress!! 🙂

Post # 19
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

A vowel renewal sounds like a fabulous idea!!  Good luck with the case, I hope you win, that is ridiculous!

Post # 20
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637 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I am so sorry all this happened to you. I think there is a special karmic hell for people who intentional screw couples on their wedding day!  There are just so many stories of this happening and its so unbelievable every time!

Please post back after your court date.  I would love to know what kind of closure you got with this woman!

Post # 21
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I think renewing your vows in Europe sounds like a wonderful idea!  Keep us updated on what happens in court.  I’m sorry you had to go through that!  No bride should have to worry about whether her caterer is going to show up… that’s awful!

Post # 22
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637 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

any updates?

Post # 23
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Sugar bee

I am so sorry that this happened to you!! I too would enjoy hearing how the court date went and if you got some money back. I’m so sorry that this has happened to you.

Post # 25
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

That is CRAZY!  What little faith I have in our court system is constantly being undermined!  You definitely can serve her yourself (“yourself” meaning from someone you hire–I’m pretty sure you can’t actually serve her yourself).  Registered mail is also possible, I believe. (which would be a less costly option)

I REALLY hope you get resolution! I also wonder if she is going around just defrauding people or if she stopped after just trying to ruin YOUR day!

Post # 26
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Newbee

That is terrible – I hope she gets what’s coming to her (and that you get your money back!)

Post # 27
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2011

That is absolutely horrible that someone would do that to you!  I hope everything works out in the end!

Post # 28
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627 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Service can be tricky (I am studying for Civ Pro and you’d be AMAZED at some of the wacky stories there are about getting notice). I am not sure about Jersey, but some states you can hire a process server yourself. I am not sure registered mail would work, it depends if your state requires notice “in person.”

Anyway, I think going for the max is a wise choice and more importantly I think having a vow renewal in Europe sounds delightful. I am so sorry you are going through all this, but if you get the punitive damages, at least you will be able to use it to pay for a very nice renewal.

Post # 29
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Im glad you are pursing this! I can’t believe that happened. how awful! I can’t imagine what i would do but i am sure it would involve the state of shock. I love your idea of going on vaca and wearing your dress. Make sure to find someone to take pics for you too! That sounds so relaxed and sweet! 

We had major problems with our baker and my mom isn’t pursuing money back because she is a friend and has had a “rough year”. I have been arguing with my mom to get her money back but she won’t. The lady messed up both bride and groom cakes and forgot a sheet cake all together! UGH

Post # 30
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

They apparently have a facebook page; I really hope theres a place to really reem it to this vendor; wedding wire perhaps? I really think other brides should be warned, especially since, if I hadnt read this, their site and the facebook page could have won me over.

 

Again I am so sorry this happened to you and I hope to hear an update soon!

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