(Closed) The Neverending Week of Tiffs!

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Hostess
7564 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

Eh DH and I have had stupid tiffs too. I would only be worried if it seems like you’re constantly fighting. Maybe just agree to disagree and don’t take it too seriously. 

Post # 4
Member
5889 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

@LittlePumpkin:  is he under stress at work? 

If not, I’d be worried that he is looking for excuses to ‘pick a fight’. Most of the time I’ve seen people do this (unless it’s due to some other life stressor), is to justify breaking up with someone. I hope that’s not the case here…

Post # 5
Member
3288 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

Sometimes I pick little fights with my DH when I’m stressed out–and sometimes I’m stressed out over stupid stuff that I’m kind of embarrassed to even say I’m stressed over! (Like our 2015 taxes. WTF, crazy brain?!)

Usually I notice it myself and apologize, but there have been times in our relationship where he’s been like, “Hey, so… you seem a little on edge the last few days. Anything I can do to help?” and usually I just feel bad and apologize and it gets better from there. It’s never about him, at least in our relationship.

So maybe try something like that with your DH?

Post # 6
Member
1246 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I thought this was about a whole bunch of women named Tiffany. I need to pay closer attention.

Post # 7
Member
1379 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

@LittlePumpkin:  happy January! The month of seemingly senseless arguments. I know I’ve been unusually persnickety lately. FI and I had a blow out tonight because.. Well no real reason other than we work too hard and sleep too little haha. “I don’t feel appreciated” “I feel ignored” “I’m just too exhausted for life” “me too” we get over it but January always seems to bring it back!

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