(Closed) The Night Before the Wedding…

posted 6 years ago in Logistics
  • poll: What are your sleeping arrangements for the night BEFORE the wedding?
    FI & I will be together at home : (13 votes)
    7 %
    FI will stay home, I will sleep at family/friends house : (23 votes)
    13 %
    FI will stay home, I will sleep in a hotel room : (25 votes)
    14 %
    I will stay home, FI will sleep at family/friends house : (16 votes)
    9 %
    I will stay home, FI will sleep in a hotel room : (8 votes)
    4 %
    Both FI and I will sleep together in a hotel room : (36 votes)
    20 %
    FI and I will be in separate hotel rooms : (40 votes)
    22 %
    Other (explain) : (13 votes)
    7 %
    Not sure : (4 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
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    6998 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    I wanted to go the traditional route…its one night…He stayed at our house and I stayed at my moms. She was closer to the church and my hair place anyway.

    Post # 4
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    3580 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Errrrm, I said we both sleep in a hotel room, but we’ll be in a tent.  Whatever.

    That said, all of the parents are renting cabins and I am about 25% considering staying with my folks the night before.  Mostly to set my hair and to make sure I actually sleep.  ha!

    Post # 5
    Member
    1736 posts
    Bumble bee

    My option wasn’t on there! 🙂 Both my fiance and I will be staying in a hotel room…but separate hotel rooms! We rented a farmhouse B&B that has two separate living spaces (each sleeps 12) so I will spend the night with my BM’s on one side of the farmhouse and he’ll spend the night with his GM’s on the other side! It’s the perfect set up to allow us to get ready separately but still be close to each other.

    Post # 6
    Member
    451 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I didnt choose a response because my wedding is out of town and Fiance will be in a hotel room while Ill be staying with my parents.

    Post # 7
    Member
    788 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    I will be at my parents house and Fiance will be with his parents. We have a whole host of traditions that happen the night before a Hindu wedding 🙂

    Post # 9
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    7901 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

    We stayed separate. My bridesmaids and I had a sleepover in the penthouse suite where we would be getting dressed the next day and where Darling Husband and I would be spending our wedding night. We had a blast, and it was a great close to my unmarried life. Darling Husband stayed at his parent’s house.

    Post # 10
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    76 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    It’s not an option on the poll but:

    Fiance will be in a hotel room, I will be at my parent’s house 🙂

    The wedding is in my old hometown where my parents still live, so staying “home” for either one of us isn’t an option!

    Post # 11
    Member
    10287 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    We stayed together in our bridal suite (same hotel where we were getting married). We’d lived together for many years prior to marriage so sleeping apart didn’t make any sense to us. We both sleep better when we’re together and the night before your wedding is quite possible the most important night’s sleep of your life. To be honest, waking up with my almost husband on our wedding day was incredible. We had a chance to snuggle for a bit and enjoy being each other before all of the craziness started. We wouldn’t have had it any other way.

    Post # 13
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    2065 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    We stayed together at our house because we both wanted to wake up together. We spent the morning together, it was great for keeping my nerves in check!

    Post # 14
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    9887 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We live together and will be home together the night before our wedding.

    Post # 15
    Member
    1114 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    We will both be staying at our respectice mums’ houses, as they are both closer to our venue than our flat, and I’ve always envisaged spending that final night at my parents’ house.

    Post # 16
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    230 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    We’re staying separate. I’m going pretty traditional with the wedding. I’ve got a suite at the hotel where all of our guests will be staying. All of my girls are going to come over and help calm nerves (most likely with a bottle of wine). We’re also getting our hair and makeup done in the suite and I’m catering a brunch for ladies there too.

    Fi will be at home.

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