(Closed) the night before the wedding….

posted 8 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

My husband and I stayed together at our house the night before the wedding.  We didn’t care about the not seeing each other before the ceremony thing since we have seen eachother for years!  We had a first look before the ceremony to get most of our pictures.

Post # 4
219 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I too am up in the air about this…although my mom hasn’t suggested that…I’m just not sure what we’re going to do! I’ll have to talk it over with Fiance. Good luck!

Post # 5
829 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I think its fine! Fiance and I are staying at our place the night before and the next morning (after breakfast) he is leaving to his parents house to meet up with the groomsmen.

Post # 6
351 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I don’t really think it’s a big deal if it doesn’t bother you. I plan on staying at my parents and him at his parents. I also vetoed the together pictures before the ceremony. But that’s what I wanted and him too. I have seen it done the other way before and honestly, do what you want 🙂

Especially if your mom doesn’t care than I think it’s ok!

Post # 8
1854 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

We had planned to stay apart the night before, but couldn’t figure out where we’d go, and at that point, my husband didn’t want to spend the night apart. So we stayed together, and very early in the morning, he left and we didn’t see each other all day until the ceremony (even if we were getting ready in the same apartment, just not in the same room – we managed not to see or speak to each other).


Post # 9
24 posts
  • Wedding: September 2010

If you don’t feel comfortable then maybe you could stay at your BM’s house.

Don’t worry too much. It’ll all work out the way it’s supposed to.

Post # 10
2859 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011 - Bartram's Garden

I don’t think it’s a big deal. The boy and I are going to spend the night before the wedding in our home, in our bed, together.

Post # 11
1067 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m renting a suite the night before so my girls can stay with me and the next day we can get ready together. I’m paying for it so the ones who are coming out of town wont have to worry about a hotel fee that night. Well unless they have a bf then they might want to have their own room

Post # 12
751 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

My man and I are spending the night together and plan to go for coffee first thing in the morning before the chaos starts just to ensure we have a few minutes to just “be us” before the wedding.  After coffee, we will go our separate ways to get ready and not see each other until our first look. 

I understand the tradition of not seeing each other, but for us, having the comfort of each other the night before and a few quiet moments to connect that morning trump anyone else’s idea of what should happen. 

Post # 14
116 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

The night before the wedding I was supposed to stay at my sister’s house.  She was my Maid/Matron of Honor, my bestfriend and other sister would be there too.  All was set.  My husband was going to stay in the apartment we have.  We the night of the rehersal ended up being very emotional just with everything coming together and I cried a little bit.  The thought of spending the night away from my husband when I was feeling so emotional was horrendous so I changed it all up that day and stayed with him.  It was absolutely perfect and I was up and out in the morning before he woke up so he didn’t see me, and we didnt’ see eachother again until the alter.  I wouldn’t have had it any other way.

Post # 15
972 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I was planning to stay over my mums but we’re having famly from Out of Town staying there and I just want a peaceful me-night so im staying in a small Inn right down the street from my mums house that way Fiance can come tuck me in then I can have my beauty sleep then head to my mums in the morning to get ready

Post # 16
459 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I think if you don’t have a huge problem with it, then go sleep with your man. You could wake up and say “morning!! we’re getting marreid today!!!”

BUT if it does bother you, (I think you said in the first post) you could stay over at the friend’s house that the Bridesmaid or Best Man from FL is staying at that way you girls can still bond the night before it just won’t be at a hotel.

Good Luck!!! I hope everything works out in the end!! **HUGS**

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