(Closed) the odd BM out

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

Just tell your Maid to keep going along with the plans as you want them. It’s for you anyway, and Matron is just going to have to deal with it!

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

I know that them not getting along will be uneasy, but she’s the one that’s not acting right….everyone else is ok, right?

 I have a Bridesmaid or Best Man that my other ladies are not really happy about either. She is very difficult with me and is giving me a hard time. She doesn’t seem to like the idea that it’s about me. I have decided to ignore her until it becomes unavoidable. I am sure that one of my other BMs will put her in her place before I can even say anything.

If it becomes too much of a problem excuse her from the wedding. IF not, just ignore her…she’ll figure it out. It’s all about YOU!!

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

I’m not sure there’s really anything you can do other than talk to your MatronOH about why your MaidOH is planning the bach party she is, and then she might feel ganged up on and it might not work out so well. Which is why I would ignore the problem. 🙂 I think people will get over the tension at the wedding… after all, it’s about you, isn’t it? Not the MatronOH!

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