(Closed) The Other Side of the Fence

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Sugar bee

I am not really sure what to draw from that- this doesn’t depict the plight of a waiting woman so much- this guy was together with his girl for a year and she was ready for things he wasn’t ready for yet. He should have explained that to her and given her the option to move on.

Personally, I don’t understand why it takes YEARS for a man to get ready to make this decision? That is inexcusable.
in regards to his story, he was still scarred from a bad divorce. That is fine but that wasn’t his mates fault and he should be more sympathetic to her as she had nothing to do with his bad past. If he wasn’t on the same page as her, then that is fine- but he shouldn’t have her waiting as she is in her late 20s and probably wants to get a family started. He should have let her go. He wants her to continue giving of herself while he is trying to figure out if it is for him or not—- see something wrong with that? I do.

He wasn’t ready- he should have manned up and let her go. /2 cents

Post # 6
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3305 posts
Sugar bee

That is fine as this isn’t a debate- I just don’t see how this relates to a waiting woman at all. Many of our women here have been with their men for years and I personally would find it an insult to be comparing it to a woman wanting to move in after 6 months.

Again, they are at different places in their lives- he should have ended the relationship and let her go becayse many women in their late 20s have bio-clocks on the mind (the ones that want to have children anyways). She may have been thinking them moving in together was another step to getting hitched. It is hard to say without her side of the story- however, this doesn’t compare to the many women we have on here who have been waiting patiently for years. There really should be no pressure from a man when time and etc. has been invested. Either he wants to or he doesn’t- sh!t or get off the pot.

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