(Closed) The other woman

posted 3 years ago in Engagement
Post # 106
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2060 posts
Buzzing bee

Sorry, she probably won’t belive you and it will only cause you pain. 

Post # 107
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701 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

betellingoflove :  just because they have 3 kids and are strict Catholics doesn’t mean they have a happy marriage or that he treats her well.  Maybe what has her so close to the edge are his daily put downs and mistreatments.  That poor woman should have been told.

Post # 108
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248 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

If she were already married, I would say to leave it… But she’s not. Best to tell her before she commits to him.

Post # 109
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918 posts
Busy bee

headoverboots :  I hope you have enough observation skills to acknowledge the likes on my previous two posts, mentioning your aggressive tendencies, and the lack of likes on yours. Through observation, we can deduct that 8+ bees think you’re out of line, when you only claimed to have an issue with one. Please, many of us bees who are younger (me at 22) look up to the more experienced and adult bee. I am having a hard time doing that with you, when all I wanted was a major conversation. We aren’t in high school anymore, and haven’t been for years, let’s please not sink to those levels.

Post # 110
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710 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

lknatbrghtsde :  I agree with you soldiers are held to a higher standard and there will be consequences for his actions, however he is not married yet which means the military will do nothing. 

Post # 111
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710 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

headoverboots :  I actually feel bad for the other woman you husband slept with. You and him might of had a slight understanding of an open relationship, but when was this other woman going to be clued in? What was the dialect between him and her (that you will never truly know) to make her think if she told you, your relationship with him would be over? 

Post # 112
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837 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Mandy0721 :  I was thinking that too. It’s funny because she vilified the woman but the hubby is a okay. The hubby destroyed that poor woman and that poster is literally butthurt at her over it. The blame belongs on that man for being an asshat that uses women. I sure hope that poor woman healed nicely. What they both pulled was a serious mind fuck

Post # 113
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11520 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

I think the OP got all the advice she was looking for and this thread has devolved into agruing. I’m going to close this now for review.

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