(Closed) The paranoia has begun…

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Irrational fears happen. It’s just admitting that you have them so you can move past them. Good luck! Mine was rain because we didn’t rent any tents.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

@CorgiTales:  I’m paranoid about getting sick or having bad weather too.  My mom actually broke her heel around New Year’s though and will still be in a cast for the wedding.  Luckily we aren’t doing a dancing type reception but we’ll still have to get her place to place okay.  I think I’m mostly worried about bad weather or one of the two of us breaking something/getting sick.  A girl I work with broke her ring finger back in September and she talked about how awful it’d be if she was supposed to get married soon so I really don’t want that to happen.   

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Breathe.  In through your nose.  Out through you mouth.  Again.

 

It’s going to be fine.  Your wedding is going to be perfect.

 

 

Do you think that my officiant may decide not to show up? He hasn’t RSVPd yet.

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

as long as you, fi, and the officiant are there, all will be well!

i’m totally prone to paranoia/anxiety too, so i understand. keep reminding yourself that everything will work out!

if it does snow, you will have the opportunity for some GORGEOUS pictures!

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Ha.  I think crazy ice storms can bring out those fears in anyone!

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

It’s part of the build up, I think. I freaked out a bunch. Stay busy! And drink some wine πŸ™‚

Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

@CorgiTales: Deep breath. Dont worry – things will be fine! My biggest wedding fear was having diarrhea on the morning of. I have no idea why I had this fear but I was so scared it was going to happen that I came prepared with Immodium and Pepto!! Well it was just an irrational fear and everything was fine! You’re right that you have no control over these things and thats probably why they are creeping into your mind right now. Probably all of (or most of) the things that you do have control over are already done so now that you dont have those things to worry about you are finding something else to worry about. Just try to remember that no matter what you will be marrying your husband and that things going wrong are inevitable, but theyre usually not that bad πŸ™‚

Post # 10
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Order these! THey slip over your shoes and provide traction on ice.  They had them at Target for a while, but I suspect they are only available online now. 

I can relate about the anxieties!  It helps to talk about them!

 

 

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Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@CorgiTales: I really didn’t have a definition of what would happen, but I had this strange feeling like something would go wrong and we wouldn’t be able to get married at all.  It was so irrational.  Once you get to the last week, it will fly by, you won’t have time to think about all the other stuff (hopefully).  All the best!

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@PitBulLover: Oh my gosh, you made me laugh out loud!!  One can never be too careful πŸ™‚

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

if it makes you feel better, that’s a totally rational paranoia at least since it actually is icy! my main paranoia before our wedding was completely ludicrous and insane– i have a totally weird fear of skin turning bizarre colors, like in a sci fi or horror movie, and about a week before the wedding i had a dream that i suddenly had a weird medical condition that caused purple lines to appear on my face, and kept being afraid that it was actually happening. i can’t tell you how many times i asked my husband or mom if my face was purple…totally ridiculous.

just take deep breaths and try and relax about the things you can’t control!

Post # 15
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

@deetroitwhat: Lol Im  crazy πŸ™‚

@finnaroo: oh my goodness  this may be more ridiculous than my irrational fear!

Post # 16
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Not if you add OJ to it Laughing

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