(Closed) The post office did something right!

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2018

maybe they thought +2? we put each name and then accepts/ declines next to it, so there was no option to add anyone! I hope it works out!

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I could see where she would think that, if you didnt know much about wedding invite wordage. I have only started learning proper wordage from this site. 🙂

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

IDK.. I get what you were saying, but I could see how a lot of people may see at is them being able to add 2 additional people.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

Yay for hand canceled invites/s.t.ds…it works AWESOME, I.m.h.o

Also, I could see why they’d be confused…if she is someone you are close to, call, otherwise…that’s more complex

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

hhmm.. this is tricky, on the RSVP card how do people say yes or no?

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

oh, I thought you sent it to everyone!  Don’t worry about it then, I doubt they’ll bring more people.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Im sorry, but if the invite was addressed to them… why on earth would the guest think.. them and then another 2 randoms??

I think you did the right thing, I see no confusion. *shrugs* but thats just me!

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper

Yikes, I don’t know how they’d think it was +2 without the “+” there!

FWIW, my DH’s uncle brought TWO uninvited guests (adults!) to the wedding and didn’t even bother to tell us!  It’s not possible to have gotten confused because we put NAMES on the RSVP card.  I think a lot of people use confusion as an excuse to just be rude and do what they want!

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

I don’t know how they would have thought that! I think you made it pretty clear!

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Glad guests are getting the invites.

I don’t think that hand canceling was the secret though. We sent out our christmas cards with save the dates in them during the holidays and people in other states were receiving them the next day. Glad that the post office is working

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